Child Support rant :wow:

[acri1]

Why can't nikkas just use condoms?

If you don't want a kid then don't have unprotected sex, even if she claims to be on birth control .


If the chick has an issue with you wearing a rubber then don't have sex with her. It's that simple. Don't get me wrong, child support screws a lot of dudes over but at the end of the day nobody made you have unprotected sex.

 

[Canon]

Why can't nikkas just use condoms?

why can't women use one of the million methods of birth control and accept responsibility over there body?

 

[bcrusaderw]

no, he agreed that he wanted some p*ssy. if y'all dropped this foolish train of thought, there would be a lot less single mothers in the black community.
also a woman can give her child up for adoption without the fathers consent if he isn't in her life; its happened plenty of times.

but back to my question--would you support the idea of men being able to sign away all parental responsibility if he doesn't want kids? i mean, its no different than women choosing abortion, right? your body, your choice. well how about, our wallet, our choice?

Your health and your wallet cannot be equated. Possibly dying from being pregnant, and paying a couple hundred a month are not equal things, and they never will be. There have been cases where the "absent" father has been able to regain his child when the child was given up without his consent.

All good points, now do you think child support is too high/punitive?

No.

 

[marcuz]

Your health and your wallet cannot be equated. Possibly dying from being pregnant, and paying a couple hundred a month are not equal things, and they never will be. There have been cases where the "absent" father has been able to regain his child when the child was given up without his consent.

No.

oh come on, man, stop bullshytting most women aint getting abortions because their health is threatened:

and you keep avoiding the question. should men have the right to alleviate themselves from the financial responsibility of fatherhood, if they did not agree to become parents. it seems like a fair trade off for both genders. your body, your rights. cool, but not on our dime.

 

[marcuz]

Why can't nikkas just use condoms?

If you don't want a kid then don't have unprotected sex, even if she claims to be on birth control .


If the chick has an issue with you wearing a rubber then don't have sex with her. It's that simple. Don't get me wrong, child support screws a lot of dudes over but at the end of the day nobody made you have unprotected sex.

i'm tired of the venus fly-p*ssy argument, it's old and places no accountability on the woman. if women get to choose if they want to be responsible for a kid, men deserve the same rights.

 

[bcrusaderw]

oh come on, man, stop bullshytting most women aint getting abortions because their health is threatened:

and you keep avoiding the question. should men have the right to alleviate themselves from fatherhood if they did not agree to become parents. it seems like a fair trade off for both genders. your body, your rights. cool, but not on our dime.

It doesn't matter why they had the abortions, and I never made a claim as to why they should get them. Pregnancy is a health altering event which could possibly result in death or injury. As such it is purely a medical decision. As a society that let's individuals have autonomy all medical decisions will be left to the individual. It's that simple. If men could become pregnant I'd have the same stance. You don't want to be in a world where other people can dictate medical decisions for you. You wouldn't want someone to force you to get a vasectomy (though mass sterilization of the poor wouldn't be completely terrible). I haven't avoided the question at all. I already answered it. ]Males agree to become parents by virtue of having sex. If you don't want to be a parent you as male have several options (don't fukk or wrap it up).

 

[acri1]

And that's why black people need to vote more. Those type of cacs are the ones making and passing laws in this country . The real power in the government is in the legislative branch

i'm tired of the venus fly-p*ssy argument, it's old and places no accountability on the woman. if women get to choose if they want to be responsible for a kid, men deserve the same rights.

Weak.

What should happen and what does happen are two different things. If you know the game and still get caught up it's your own fault. If you got the most to lose from a situation then don't put it in her hands to control.


If you don't want a kid then don't hit raw. It's not complicated. You can cry all day about what the chick ought to do, but passively letting her control the situation like that is dumb. Be a man and take control of the situation. I don't get what's so damn hard about using a condom.

 

[D.C Young]

Is there a link of this on youtube?

 

[marcuz]

Weak.

What should happen and what does happen are two different things. If you know the game and still get caught up it's your own fault. If you got the most to lose from a situation then don't put it in her hands to control.


If you don't want a kid then don't hit raw. It's not complicated. You can cry all day about what the chick ought to do, but passively letting her control the situation like that is dumb. Be a man and take control of the situation. I don't get what's so damn hard about using a condom.

luckily, the game can be changed, and will be changed.

 

[marcuz]

It doesn't matter why they had the abortions, and I never made a claim as to why they should get them. Pregnancy is a health altering event which could possibly result in death or injury. As such it is purely a medical decision. As a society that let's individuals have autonomy all medical decisions will be left to the individual. It's that simple. If men could become pregnant I'd have the same stance. You don't want to be in a world where other people can dictate medical decisions for you. You wouldn't want someone to force you to get a vasectomy (though mass sterilization of the poor wouldn't be completely terrible). I haven't avoided the question at all. I already answered it. ]Males agree to become parents by virtue of having sex. If you don't want to be a parent you as male have several options (don't fukk or wrap it up).

no you didn't, you did everything but answer it. its a yes or no question. should men be able to sign away their rights to the financial responsibility if they did not want to be parents. dont respond back tellin me they agree just by having sex, answer my question

 

[bcrusaderw]

no you didn't, you did everything but answer it. its a yes or no question. should men be able to sign away their rights to the financial responsibility if they did not want to be parents. dont respond back tellin me they agree just by having sex, answer my question

The answer is NO because they agreed to potentially become parents when they had sex with someone.

 

[Colicat]

@Panthera

y'all BW cant play me with this birth control shyt. just another execuse yall use to pop out all these unwanted children. neg away but male birth control is coming shortly anyways. the days of women trapping nikkas with yall bullshyt is coming to a close

Here you go with your bullshyt generalizations.... Do some women (Black, white, Hispanic) use the line I am not on birth control because it's bad for my health? I am sure that some do... But what does that have to do with a man deciding to have sex with said woman? What does that have to do with both part deciding not to use condoms?


Male birth control is already readily available.... Get a vasectomy or use condoms

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure

Don't try to blame Black women for choosing to not harm their bodies with medications not designed for them

Blame Black men who don't take preventative measures.... When you don't, you give you power to choose away

#takebackyourpower #Youcanchoose #youdadaddy #youokbro?

 

[marcuz]

The answer is NO because they agreed to potentially become parents when they had sex with someone.

yea of course. why would women be for a system that yanks their meal ticket and forces accountability on the woman

 

[marcuz]

Here you go with your bullshyt generalizations.... Do some women (Black, white, Hispanic) use the line I am not on birth control because it's bad for my health? I am sure that some do... But what does that have to do with a man deciding to have sex with said woman? What does that have to do with both part deciding not to use condoms?


Male birth control is already readily available.... Get a vasectomy or use condoms

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure

Don't try to blame Black women for choosing to not harm their bodies with medications not designed for them

Blame Black men who don't take preventative measures.... When you don't, you give you power to choose away

#takebackyourpower #Youcanchoose #youdadaddy #youokbro?

lol @ those 2 options. y'all have over 10 options and refuse them all.

yall kill me with this health scape goat. BW talk that shyt then eat unhealthy, smoke, drink, have unprotected risky sex, etc. yall rather be single mothers then get on birth control. goodluck

 

[Starman]

yea of course. why would women be for a system that yanks their meal ticket and forces accountability on the woman

Well, at least that makes sense. I don't see how there are any men who don't see the system as it currently stands as a problem though. Mothers can spend CS on whatever they like, the amount often exceeds what the father would spend if he lived in the household- which incentivizes breaking up families...On top of that, women are so much more likely to get custody....