Child Support rant :wow:

[marcuz]

Well, at least that makes sense. I don't see how there are any men who don't see the system as it currently stands as a problem though. Mothers can spend CS on whatever they like, the amount often exceeds what the father would spend if he lived in the household- which incentivizes breaking up families...On top of that, women are so much more likely to get custody....

they know the system is rigged against men. instead of fighting to change it, they'd rather shrug their shoulders and say "well, shouldnt have fukked her "

 

[Konnan]

I used to hear this rant every week from my homeboy at work

The disgust in his voice when he would say how he was working his ass off just so that bytch could splurge on herself and get his baby the bare minimum because he would still have to come out of pocket for different things on top of the money they wouLtd have already took

Have kids brehs

 

[satam55]

 

[Konnan]

We gonna beat that ho together

 

[bcrusaderw]

yea of course. why would women be for a system that yanks their meal ticket and forces accountability on the woman

The women are held accountable, and so are the men. The system in place is very fair when you account for the biological differences.

 

[marcuz]

The women are held accountable, and so are the men. The system in place is very fair when you account for the biological differences.

how are women accountable when you can opt out of parenthood for any reason?

 

[bcrusaderw]

how are women accountable when you can opt out of parenthood for any reason?

As I've stated multiple times pregnancy is a potentially life endangering health event. As such women have full control over abortion. When men can become pregnant they can dictate what happens to a pregnancy.

 

[marcuz]

As I've stated multiple times pregnancy is a potentially life endangering health event. As such women have full control over abortion. When men can become pregnant they can dictate what happens to a pregnancy.

stop scapegoating the overwelming majority of women dont opt out over health issues. they opt out because they dont want the kid.

 

[bcrusaderw]

stop scapegoating the overwelming majority of women dont opt out over health issues. they opt out because they dont want the kid.

It doesn't matter why women have abortion. We're discussing their right to have it.

 

[blackdahlia]

@Panthera

y'all BW cant play me with this birth control shyt. just another execuse yall use to pop out all these unwanted children. neg away but male birth control is coming shortly anyways. the days of women trapping nikkas with yall bullshyt is coming to a close

I'm so confused. Like, men have birth control. it's called a condom. If you won't use the tools that are available to you, how can you complain if the chick gets pregnant? That's not a trap, that's foolishness.

 

[marcuz]

It doesn't matter why women have abortion. We're discussing their right to perform it.

it does matter, its all that matters. if women can choose not to be financially responsible for their kid after unprotected sex, men deserve the same luxury--and we will get it

 

[marcuz]

I'm so confused. Like, men have birth control. it's called a condom. If you won't use the tools that are available to you, how can you complain if the chick gets pregnant? That's not a trap, that's foolishness.

condoms can break and women can poke holes them in. plus they feel like ass. you wouldnt put a rubber over your tongue before eating a steak, would ya?

 

[blackdahlia]

condoms can break and women can poke holes them in. plus they feel like ass. you wouldnt put a rubber over your tongue before eating a steak, would ya?

Yes condoms can break, just like hormonal bc can fail. there are always risks. If you're worried about someone poking holes in them, bring your own.

As far as feeling, well, that's an unfortunate side effect.

My point is just that these are the options we have for preventing pregnancy. You use what you have at your disposal. If you don't want to use them, fine, just acknowledge the risks you are taking and take responsibility for it. it takes two to tango.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

The women are held accountable, and so are the men. The system in place is very fair when you account for the biological differences.

 

[marcuz]

Yes condoms can break, just like hormonal bc can fail. there are always risks. If you're worried about someone poking holes in them, bring your own.

As far as feeling, well, that's an unfortunate side effect.

My point is just that these are the options we have for preventing pregnancy. You use what you have at your disposal. If you don't want to use them, fine, just acknowledge the risks you are taking and take responsibility for it. it takes two to tango.

dont get me wrong, i believe in safe sex until you're with a trusted partner. but the laws need to be tweaked. women have too many options and leverage; while men have very little by comparison