Child Support rant :wow:

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Lol yeah but not actually what's happening.
Are you saying that women only put men on child support when it's absolutely necessary? Are you saying that there are no cases where women put men who are already doing their jobs as fathers, on child support out of spite?

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I always wonder what "taking care of" kids means. I always hear guys say this but they never really know what that means. It just seems like an ambiguous statement that actually means the opposite of what it's intended.

Same thing it means when some women say it,its always ambiguous unless you know the people involved personally.

just throwing some money,or just spending a little bit of time by choice or by force aint neccesarily taking care of your kid....and neither is living off welfare,collecting child support and spending alot of time with the kid.

if yall both poor and not together chances are both of yall are not taking care of your kid completley:mjcry:
 

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when it comes to child support women should have to lay out a budget for the baby's needs/food/pampers etc and just have the man buy it individually

How does your plan work considering kids have other needs besides food and diapers. Children need a home to live in which requires the payment for that plus the light bill, water bill, and gas bill. The mother needs a method of transportation so she can work and transport the kids. That requires car insurance at minimum. The home the kids live in needs maintenance if its not rented, that costs money. Child support is not just for food and diapers, it is so the child can maintain a certain standard of living. It is not solely on the mother to provide that.

This is why I don't believe in premarital sex, and if women were smart instead of falling for this false "empowerment" they wouldn't believe in it either. Sex comes with responsibility. If you don't want to be responsible then keep it in your pants.
 

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I pay about $700 a month in child support.....:francis:



My oldest graduation is next Thursday....the worst thing in the world is dropping off the check on Friday and then your son hitting you up on Saturday cause he needs new shoes. :scust:



I had to learn the hard way.....don't get stuck with BM breh :hamster:
 

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How does your plan work considering kids have other needs besides food and diapers. Children need a home to live in which requires the payment for that plus the light bill, water bill, and gas bill. The mother needs a method of transportation so she can work and transport the kids. That requires car insurance at minimum. The home the kids live in needs maintenance if its not rented, that costs money. Child support is not just for food and diapers, it is so the child can maintain a certain standard of living. It is not solely on the mother to provide that.

This is why I don't believe in premarital sex, and if women were smart instead of falling for this false "empowerment" they wouldn't believe in it either. Sex comes with responsibility. If you don't want to be responsible then keep it in your pants.

What about a plan where whoever can afford to pay all they own bills,has they own transportation gets custody:patrice:?sometimes that will be the daddy and sumtimes that will be the mother:manny:.

both parties being fit that is and wanting custody...i think most men would consider that fair,as of right now the mother pretty much has dibs unless proven to be horrible.

even against a millionaire who can obviously provide a better standard of living if thats whats important.
 

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I always wonder what "taking care of" kids means. I always hear guys say this but they never really know what that means. It just seems like an ambiguous statement that actually means the opposite of what it's intended.

When a woman says it. What do you think it means
 

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women do it just as out of spite as any other reason.

How does your plan work considering kids have other needs besides food and diapers. Children need a home to live in which requires the payment for that plus the light bill, water bill, and gas bill. The mother needs a method of transportation so she can work and transport the kids. That requires car insurance at minimum. The home the kids live in needs maintenance if its not rented, that costs money. Child support is not just for food and diapers, it is so the child can maintain a certain standard of living. It is not solely on the mother to provide that.

This is why I don't believe in premarital sex, and if women were smart instead of falling for this false "empowerment" they wouldn't believe in it either. Sex comes with responsibility. If you don't want to be responsible then keep it in your pants.

bytch its called LIFE. you have to pay for all that whether you have a kid or not. its not your ex's responsibility.

its time we stopped calling it child support because thats not really who its supporting. most of these bytches out here barely make 30k, but make 10-15k in untaxed CS and act like they ballin. women are nothing but leeches

my thing is, how is the state going to decide for a man what percentage of the money he earns needs to go to the woman? thats some straight up bullshyt
 
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