thats true and i agree. but maybe thats the western perspective you know? when youve been told your whole life youre only good for making babies and taking care of the house before the age of 20, you might feel insecure when you're 27 and the complete opposite
eh if you’re bold enough to you’re own way then it doesnt really matter. In the old world if you dont want to go the path your family wants for you you leave the family, same thing in the states. It may hurt emotionally that people wont communicate with you, but hey we’re adults and choices come with various results and that may be one of them. As an adult you run your future family how you want, and if you dont want a family of your own, there’s that also.
the same way one may feel they dont want to be apart of a tradition, those who do want to be apart of it wont agree with them.