"China Doesn't Like That I'm a Single Woman, Here's Why | Op-Docs"

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That wasn't ether, that was just meanness and misogyny internalized and spewed out.

27 is old?

Where, the middle ages?!

That whole eastern bloc of Asia has severe problems with treatment of women, and it's born into a Leftover Women stereotype, when the reality is that like someone else said already, it's the dudes being abandoned.

A woman at 27-34 without kids, and well employed is just getting her wind in the west, yet over there it's the death knoll?

No wonder the women aren't happy.

They watch western media and see all the feminine empowerment, and then step outside and see a yellow toothed, bad breathed, flat faced repressive man who chews with his mouth open telling her she's undesirable?

No wonder they're opting out on the whole.
did that bytch look 27 to you?

she's clearly in her 30's i'd guess 34-35. That is not an ideal age for marriage especially with her standards.
 

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:picard: at her telling the woman she's not beautiful in the traditional sense. She's not hot by any means, but that's someone who's you grow attracted to if you spent enough time with her. She's cute and has her shyt together.

I genuinely felt for her as I watched the family argument escalate. She's college educated and became a lawyer, yet her family views her as a failure and is ashamed.
 

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the ending was gut wrenching and her parent's reminded me of mine. They're in that age where they're just tired and want their child to start a life.

I think they may believe shes a lesbian? i dont get her excuses fathers right a man of high class wouldnt want her unfortunately.
 

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:picard: at her telling the woman she's not beautiful in the traditional sense. She's not hot by any means, but that's someone who's you grow attracted to if you spent enough time with her. She's cute and has her shyt together.

I genuinely felt for her as I watched the family argument escalate. She's college educated and became a lawyer, yet her family views her as a failure and is ashamed.
They want her to start a family of her own. They only want what's best man and they can easily see her waste years and enter her 40's with no family.

I know a few women in their 50's who chased a career but now in their old age regretted not having kids. also like i said she gives off lesbian vibes to me and the parents may sense it.
 

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They want her to start a family of her own. They only want what's best man and they can easily see her waste years and enter her 40's with no family.

I know a few women in their 50's who chased a career but now in their old age regretted not having kids. also like i said she gives off lesbian vibes to me and the parents may sense it.

I get their concern, but it's not like she isn't trying. The quality of men she encountered in that eight minutes was bottom of the barrel. They weren't attractive, had no confidence and the last one specifically wanted to rule his home with an iron fist.
 

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no chill Gill :picard:

a lot of other cultures are so straightforward. not afraid to call people fat and shyt to their face

Marriage hides alot of flaws breh, one of the big ones is poverty. 2 incomes together beat one and in some areas 45k a year for two people combined can get a little place, car and kids...

China is HOH cuz they know matriarchy is a complete failure.
 

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Your roleplay had me crying.

Finished the video.

And all it looked like to me, was unhappy moms brow beating their single freedom having sister to join them in their misery.

Side note - Chinese is the most irritating of the major east asian languages to listen to.

Sounded like a roomful of rabid chipmunks ranting over acorn prices.

Korean is the least annoying.

Man, I've felt this way for a long time. No :mjpls: but Chinese and Vietnamese sound whiny as fukk. Thai is on some sing song shyt. :dead: Japanese it really depends on the person but through their media it's either too hype or just sounds bytch made.
 

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They want her to start a family of her own. They only want what's best man and they can easily see her waste years and enter her 40's with no family.

I know a few women in their 50's who chased a career but now in their old age regretted not having kids. also like i said she gives off lesbian vibes to me and the parents may sense it.
So setting down with anything is what’s best?

She looked like the best looking one in her fam. The rest of her sisters have zero careers, weight gain, looked stress because they’re a yes-woman to their husbands and chase kids all day while probably still living with their parents

Some people just don’t want that. Whether late 20’s or mid-30’s, life isn’t over just because you don’t have kids with whoever shows up.

I’m not saying she isn’t picky or something but from what I saw, she really isn’t being picky. Maybe she had better suitors in the past and she played them for a career
 

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The simple solution is to stop sending these girls to college:yeshrug:. This is the quickest way too ensure they get married.

I know it sounds harsh but they already killed millions of them in the womb, so this isnt difficult for them.
 

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So setting down with anything is what’s best?

She looked like the best looking one in her fam. The rest of her sisters have zero careers, weight gain, looked stress because they’re a yes-woman to their husbands and chase kids all day while probably still living with their parents

Some people just don’t want that. Whether late 20’s or mid-30’s, life isn’t over just because you don’t have kids with whoever shows up.

I’m not saying she isn’t picky or something but from what I saw, she really isn’t being picky. Maybe she had better suitors in the past and she played them for a career
when you are a women in her 30's with those looks settling down is an inevitable choice. She has a biological clock and it isn't trying to date.

she may need to travel.
 

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when you are a women in her 30's with those looks settling down is an inevitable choice. She has a biological clock and it isn't trying to date.

she may need to travel.
I rather her just have a kid alone then if that’s her choices on a daily basis
 
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