Choosing bums as life partners

[Sad Bunny]

The issue is not her, because she is clearly a hood rat if she is out chasing her nikka off of a street corner.

The question is don't you deserve better than chicks like her?

Maybe I am wrong. Maybe you don't deserve better.

That could have been his one-time to reunite with some old friends and they just happened to be in front of the laundromat.

Is that a crime or does it mean he's a bum?

Yall suburban nikkas is weird.

 

[010101]

that's entertainment

their reality is for them to know & sort out

*

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The issue is not her, because she is clearly a hood rat if she is out chasing her nikka off of a street corner.

The question is don't you deserve better than chicks like her?

Maybe I am wrong. Maybe you don't deserve better.

Where in my post did I say that a man should commit to a woman like that? She doesn't have self respect therefore she won't be respected and at best will be used for sex on the side. That is essentially the heart of my argument.

How can a woman like that complain about men not respecting them when they do shyt like commit to a childish hood nikka instead of growing up and choosing a man who is on his grind, leveling up with him and building something with him?

 

[Samori Toure]

That could have been his one-time to reunite with some old friends and they just happened to be in front of the laundromat.

Is that a crime or does it mean he's a bum?

Yall suburban nikkas is weird.

nikka I grew up on the West Side of Chicago. That shyt was probably rougher than that spot in Philly.

She has clearly had that conversation with that dude before, which is why he knew it was coming.

I am not faulting that man for his life. I am not faulting that chick for dating that man. I am just asking this other man if he deserved something better than some hood chick chasing some nikka off of a street corner?

 

[HarlemHottie]

A lot of in here.


How we know he a bum? His shirt says "God is good", that does not equate to super thug.


Further, just the fact that she reacted like that is proof he don't be out here. He clearly ain't eating off the street life.

Lastly, what would y'all have her do instead? They're married with kids. Is it smarter to leave him or attempt to cajole him out of risky behavior?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

This is why some dudes don't respect women. There are plenty of square dudes out there working average jobs and managing their money and cant get a text back but they'll invest in a bum over them.

? really

 

[FeverPitch2]

No she didn't.

She just wanted him to get out the streets because the city is hot right now. She doesn't want him to be an innocent victim story on the news.

Okay.

 

[ZEupTWN]

This happens for the following reasons: women listening to dumb shyt society tells them and/or she a bum too.

Women who date bums allow to many people in their ear. We always hear that we should give dudes a chance or look past just money and some women start feeling sorry for these dudes. Which is stupid. Also a lotta women have a harder time elevating beyond their social circle when they become successful. They don’t wanna seem stuck up or like they are moving differently. But they aren’t doing themselves any favors. Being equally yoked is a movement.

Valid points...
I've heard this from sistas who are from the hood but come from solid supportive backgrounds or left the hood long enough to where they wised up..

 

[chkmeout]

Square dudes are lame and boring. Not standing up for the bums or the women that get with bums, but them square dudes need to get some testosterone.

Dumbass nikka post #36673

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This is a huge problem.
Sisters overlooking good dudes to choose bums and brothers letting it make them bitter against women.

That's what she grew up in so she look at nikkas like that as normal
She's with who she's supposed to be with

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

You cuffin hoz who getting used by bum nikkas and getting burnt

i aint arguing with a nikka who drives trucks all day just so he can tap trannies in every area code

n you get pressed by mexicans you're done pal

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Dumbass nikka post #36673

Whatever helps you cope dawg

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This happens for the following reasons: women listening to dumb shyt society tells them and/or she a bum too.

Women who date bums allow to many people in their ear. We always hear that we should give dudes a chance or look past just money and some women start feeling sorry for these dudes. Which is stupid. Also a lotta women have a harder time elevating beyond their social circle when they become successful. They don’t wanna seem stuck up or like they are moving differently. But they aren’t doing themselves any favors. Being equally yoked is a movement.

That is not whymajority of the time the bum is exciting

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I personally know engineers who still live somewhat fast/exciting lives but they’re still safe and have their lives in order


Obviously they had to chill out on the antics and foolishness. I think people fukk up by thinking everybody in those “lame” or geeky careers are lames by default. The majority might be yes, but there are outliers dawg.

The outliers is something like 2%

And you don't have to live a fast life to get women.

 

[Samori Toure]

That's what she grew up in so she look at nikkad like that as normal
She's with who she's supposed to be with

That is my biggest issue with father's being absent from the home. Little boys and little girls never see a real man in the home on a daily basis, so the boys are out trying to learn how to be a man and the girls grow up dating a bunch of manbabies thinking that those are actual men.