If you hate a women over a little harmless comment like this then the problem is you.
Except that's not the point.
In one corner you have the red pill losers and grifters.
In the middle you have young men who are confused.
In the other corner, you have men trying tell men that it is okay to have feelings and that they don't need to meet a narrow definition of masculinity.
It's counterproductive when women like Kelly, who have Soldier under belt, push such messages. It reinforces the idea that the only way to get respect is by being a traditional man.