My ex is basically virgin she only fukked her ex bf and me, now she's a born again no sex, attractive, educated in medical school. She wifey material but she doesn't realize........... you gotta have something to make a nikka stay around.
if she's in medical school 5 states away, and when she visits she don't wanna fukk, then.... she ain't cutting it. I can deal with a virgin I see everyday but does other things like cooks and cleans strokes my ego. But dealing with a chick like Yvonne, who always traveling, not around to have sex with OR atleast cook. That's not happening.
Exactly, but sadly this is how woman are raised in the 1st generation Nigerian community (very different from back home).
"Become a doctor, lawyer, engineer, build up your career etc and you should be able to pull any man..."
But none of that makes you a better wife.
I'm not shytting on my people for following their dreams, but I'll let my sister tell it, her being a doctor and running her own clinic and working 7 days a week makes her very unavailable and her relationships fail because of it.



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It's not the same as playing a racist character but not being racist, or any other character that sways from your actual real life persona because those people aren't claiming a level of "purity". In fact, if you're an actor, for the most part you have no purity because you have to expose yourself to thoughts, ideals and actions that are not pure in order to get into character and play said character with a level of integrity.
Breh its a catch 22 everyone wants their daughter to be successful but theyre not thinking about the dating environment. If I had a daughter I'd tell her to shoot for the starts but be realistic. If you know you're career oriented woman you need to find a simp, overly nice nikka while shes IN COLLEGE. Who only wants to support her. A guy who is attractive, ambitious, with a strong personality will only replace a wife who is never at home, doesn't cook or clean and is only about her career. esp if he's Nigerian