That is true as well, but there are still too many variables there as well. What if he ups and decides to get married to another broad and she starts putting it in his ear to get full custody of the kids and he flips and tries to take my kids from me just because? What if he just flips and decides, nah, I'm good, you can have the kids. But living with him isn't going to prevent that either so I'm between a rock and a hard place on this.you dont have to live together to co-parent. But then you have to trust eachother to make good decisions while you are not there with the kids.
Obviously, all my scenarios are geared toward the fear (again) that I will end up with a fukkboy, and all of this can be circumvented if I just deal with good guys like I have been (except for that brief period)
And then trust. That isn't very easy for me.
