Co-Parenting Really Is Difficult...Dont Have Kids

[ORDER_66]

Out of court? Pshhhhhht

Maybe you can get her to agree to a few things, get a mediation lawyer I think... I mean would it hurt to have ground rules. y'all not married. but there got to be a balance. if she's just too crazy then my advice is to either get more of a physical custody arrangement or get a 50/50 thing going. because it's only gonna get worse if she cant control herself.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

The very foundation of your relationship is sand.

Usually people don't even intend on having kids, they just keep sport fukcing until they get 'lucky' and don't even attempt to have an actual relationship.

Were you and babymama even officially bf and gf before the kid?

This shyt doesn't work cause it's not the right set up.

 

[HollowPoints2]

Pick better a better baby momma next time


But for real, I don't get women who fukk around with their BD's just because, especially if he's actually being a father to his kid. Just spiteful

Many of these hoez look at single motherhood as a badge of honor, according to the girlfriends.

Pick better women.

 

[EndDomination]

It helps to be married before you have kids.
With a strong foundation, financial stability, and an open line of contact between you two.
I'm not about that "baby mama/baby daddy" life, I need a degree of certainty.

 

[wickedsm]

Good luck to you both on getting it together.

 

[Reginald Noble]

Couldn't agree more and I don't even have no kids. Just looking at yall make me hurt.

 

[Audemar]

all i do is argue with my baby momma

I'm already against having kids, but you only have yourself to blame, b. I hope the few minutes of pleasure were with it.

 

[Colin X]

Have kids with a woman you in a committed relationship/married to



Is the idea of "families" completely gone from y'all nikkas heads?

 

[benjamin]

Cop: Now see...lookahere..ya see..you know you done fukked up right?

Cain: nah nah, I...I meant...I mean 2:30..yea I..

Cop: now..now..see...you know you done fukked up right..you know that right..haha see..you fukked up




My nikka OP, you is cain..

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

It helps to be married before you have kids.
With a strong foundation, financial stability, and an open line of contact between you two.
I'm not about that "baby mama/baby daddy" life, I need a degree of certainty.

 

[Pay Your Bills]

I dont know how yall brehs do it

all i do is argue with my baby momma and she is defensive to everything

i dont know how im gonna make 18 years with this uncooperative hoe

You chose wrong breh, not every woman deserve to have your child

 

[Woman of god]

Most women who are petty and irresponsible as parents likely gave you signs that they were petty and irresponsible before they had the baby. U just chose not to see it/didn't care/thought it was cute at the time.

The same way u guys go in on women for not picking better father's for their children, someone should go in on you for not picking a better mother for urs. U knew that girl was immature and petty before u layed with her no protection so now deal with it nikka

 

[JerkPork]

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[Losttribe]

All these fukk nikka responses.

He probably was in some sort of relationship. Sure they should have been married , but stuff happens

That doesn't give her a right to be a bytch

And childrens mothers act this way because they are still in their emotions. ..... they have a child, no husband, responsibilities with automatic stigma and the reality that the father will end up happy w another woman.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Don't nut in a chick you aren't marrying/married to.

I hate it for OP, it's an awful situation. But it could have been avoided with smart decisions pre-kid.