Coli Brehette realizes at 33 years old.. she is not her Type’s type

™BlackPearl The Empress™

Long Live the Empire
Supporter
Joined
Sep 30, 2013
Messages
50,048
Reputation
21,978
Daps
200,610
I'm confused rather than defensive. I said I think she looks better with short hair - and you replied with "nah" and went on about younger/older. I then clarified that my post wasn't really a debate because I think she looks better with short hair and younger/older conversation wasn't the crux of my post nor of my views on beauty

clarifying and elaborating on stances tend to generally lead to understanding, but on the coli it's interpreted as defensive and adversarial. it's odd
Why would my opinion sounds exactly like your? It's confusing to you that you said something and my response didn't mirror yours exactly? Come on now. You're trying too hard.

OK. It's not that serious. We're talking about a hairstyle. That's why your unnecessary over explanation comes off as defensiveness.

The "debate" was your brain child. No one saw that but you.
 

Piff Perkins

Veteran
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
56,148
Reputation
21,657
Daps
306,614
She's cute and while her style isn't something I gravitate to it clearly works for her aesthetically.

My grandma used to always say be true unto yourself. In all things. Everyone should have a sense of what they like, and be honest about where they stand on an attraction level. Maybe you aren't a handsome dude but you're gregarious and funny, which makes up for it. Maybe you're a little chubby as a woman but you have great fashion sense and a good personality. Whatever it is...knowing who you are is important because you HAVE to determine who actually likes you and who doesn't. And if someone doesn't like you....don't chase them. That shyt doesn't work.

I know I'm conventionally handsome (tall, hairline still there, good face etc). And I know exactly what I like in a woman, personality wise and looks wise. Have I strayed from that at times? Yea, and it has actually worked. But it has also not worked lol. So from an odds perspective I know I need to stick to what I like and I'm pretty happy with the results.
 

Biscayne

Ocean air
Joined
Apr 2, 2015
Messages
34,495
Reputation
5,957
Daps
105,014
Reppin
Cruisin’
What do you think she is being delusional about?
About “clean cut” black men having a “type”. Even if true, she’s really not all that eclectic or “outside the norm” to feel as though she doesn’t fit the type that “clean cut black men” want. It’s something about her personality probably
 

Uchiha God

Veteran
Joined
Jan 11, 2013
Messages
18,019
Reputation
9,904
Daps
113,528
Reppin
NULL
Why would my opinion sounds exactly like your? It's confusing to you that you said something and my response didn't mirror yours exactly? Come on now. You're trying too hard.

OK. It's not that serious. We're talking about a hairstyle. That's why your unnecessary over explanation comes off as defensiveness.

The "debate" was your brain child. No one saw that but you.

But why would me thinking that she looks better with short hair be an invitation for your opinion and segue into what makes her look younger/older? You replied to my post with "Nah. etc etc" - and I said I'm not really debating, I think she looks better with short hair and younger/older doesn't factor for me in that - it's a personal preference thing. Instead of understanding I got "defensive. most people think. you didn't disagree", hence confusion.

I just think she looks better with short hair, brehette. My bad :hubie:
 

Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr

Black and not crackin’
Supporter
Joined
Jun 6, 2014
Messages
5,508
Reputation
1,434
Daps
21,135
She’s really skinny, and I actually think she looks better with the short hair




My wife is thin (not this thin) and tall with short hair….that’s my type and this chik looks nice too. Unfortunately, she’s probably more of the hwhyte boys type as far as shape and general appeal. If she had a trunk on her, she would catch more brothas probably…
 

Ohene

Yeah HOE!
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
79,483
Reputation
7,381
Daps
140,269
Reppin
Toronto
I went to look at her page.

Hmmmmm I have dated corporate BM and they seem to like my aesthetic just fine and I definitely don't have the "traditional" look she's talking about but I do know what she is referring to.

If I could guess it's the hair and how she dresses. Those type of guys "typically" like a more feminine aesthetic. Could be the personality too.

She wears her hair very short which she doesn't have the face shape for. It's not flattering and makes her look older. Her face is pretty but short hair looks much better on people with rounder or smaller heads. They (the men) don't mind short hair if it looks good. She looks a lot better with the longer hair.

She has a very thin frame which is fine but she dresses in a fun way. I like it but it does give her an awkward vibe. It's giving tall and awkward; not lean and elegant.

She has no sex appeal whatsoever. That's probably a confidence thing. Those type of men, unless they are just a lame, tend to be very spicy. Lol They are fun, out going and self confident. She is giving none of that.

As a person with insanely high self confidence, :pachaha:I wouldn't take her out to a fun setting if she was my friend. She'd probably hate my ass anyway. Lol But she's seems a bit dull.

Gotta pep it up if you wanna play with the big boys. Those type of men have smart ass mouths frfr. You gotta be able to snapback in a fun way or they will hurt your feelings.

Once I went to a basketball game with a guy and we were leaving. There was a woman outside with this crazy big butt. She was CLEARLY there to see a player. I think I said something like "Oh wow". I didn't say it to be insulting but, of course, he took the opportunity.

Him: Don't be out here hating on the competition lol

Me: Ohhhh I didn't know I was supposed to be inside with the players too.

:russ:

Shut his ass right the fukk up. He's been trying to bag me ever since but he's a little too sassy for me. Probably wants to hate fukk me for that reply but he'll never get the satisfaction. :mjlol: The comments are cute (sometimes) every so often. But it gets annoying really fast if they over do it.

So she is probably right. Those men would drag her ass to hell and back. Corp BM are probably the funnest group to date. They are wild though. If a woman can catch one who's a decent person she will never have a dull moment. But they ain't for the weak of heart.

I would say a high earning blue collar dude or a guy with less "swag" would likely be a good fit but all men like sex appeal so she still needs to work on that. He (general) would probably appreciate the differences between them 2 and see her as more classy than the corp dude. They won't give her the excitement of the corp guy though.
Hair wise the length isnt the issue. It’s the texture/bangs/lack of volume. And like you said it don’t match her face either.
It looks terrible

Id date a girl with zero hair before one with that hair style in the video where she driving. She need to ditch the hair hats but overall she just not attractive as she think she is
 

™BlackPearl The Empress™

Long Live the Empire
Supporter
Joined
Sep 30, 2013
Messages
50,048
Reputation
21,978
Daps
200,610
Hair wise the length isnt the issue
Its the texture/bangs/lack of volume
It looks terrible

Id date a girl with zero hair before one with that hair style in the video where she driving. She need to ditch the hair hats
The hair length is the issue but ya'll are so focused on the fact that's it's a weave you're missing how it frames her face.

She could easily do a bob with her natural hair that would suit her better.
 
Top