as a finance guy, you hit a lot of her issues on the head. i don't have tiktok, but how she presented herself in the op is vastly different than how she's presents herself on ig. the op is more flattering for her.
but after listening to some of her ig videos, my first thoughts was her voice has a slight roughness to it, but that's something that could be fixed.
exactly, her head is too oblong for short hair and i love short hair on women. exactly her style of cut too but that cut is not flattering for her head shape.
and when she wears her hair longer in other pics, it's the type of hair you see with black women who are into white men. that very frazzled dry long weavey look. or the type of bad weave you might see on *some* first generation african women.
as a breh that grew up around *talented tenth* features, the hair gotta be on point. short or long, it has to look like she comes from generations of women who know how to maintain their hair. and she has to look like she got access to good black beauticians too.
when she keeps it straight and simple, she's good. like here...
i love petite women, but she's too boney. what I look for are women who are stringent with their diet and health but also who's figures show the contours that come with years of being active. whether it's running, biking, playing tennis or other racquet sports, golfing...there is a level of toneness and firmness that rounds out features that would otherwise make someone appear sick. and her figure makes me her appear sick.
also, in the way that she dresses. i look for a woman that has an eye for style. and when put together is tasteful and chic. heavy emphasis on the chic. she doesn't have to be a designer or fashion label whore but has to have the ability to go into a consignment or secondhand shop and piece shyt together that yields "chic". could be artsy chic, gothic chic, hillbilly chic, whatever, i like diverse style, but still should have that underlying element. she doesn't exactly have that. she's kinda close but a lot of the things that she puts together gives "ghetto prom" energy or "dapper donish" and it correlates to a little bit of the roughness I hear in her voice. the fabric and cloth that she uses doesn't look high quality and her cut is always skin tight. i prefer classically tailored cuts on women, things that have drape, and some of her longer dresses hit those categories but most of her style looks a bit ghetto fab and not that of someone who has spent years studying not just fashion but refined style. i also want to see tweed, herringbone, oxford cottons, cashmere, etc.. she has none of that. comes off very country.
i don't mind a little eccentricity. I actually prefer it. but, yes, you have to exude confidence. i'm in spaces where the average person was groomed from childhood to be a leader. groomed to manage people. so everything from their mannerisms, posture, tone, how they walk, how they present and carry themselves EXUDES authority. she has to carry energy like she comes from people with authority. that actress helena bonham carter is a good example. she can be eccentric and awkward but when she speaks, she exudes power.
girl in the op got all the right foundations, she just needs to refine elements of herself and she would be a catch.
all your observations were on point.
naturally, this aesthetic is what i gravitate towards minus the obnoxious shades because it's safe. but she doesn't have to be "preppy" and i prefer someone who takes risk and has diversity in style as long as she has an *eye* for style. if she has an eye for style, then she can take more risk. but a lot of women don't have that so i default back to safe.
Where is she from/ located? That might explain it.
