Coli Brehette realizes at 33 years old.. she is not her Type’s type

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She says in the video that she started dating an artist guy, and he was actually digging her, as opposed to whatever she was getting from her type (which she described as Asian/Black Finance Bros that normally date country club girls)

As soon as I started getting some coin, the Rita Marley/Lauryn Hill types started coming out the wood work.

They might not say it out loud, but if one partner is making the dollars, she can focus on her art.
Yeah I think it's pretty obvious she wants a corporate guy for the come up and wants financial relief.

That's why they don't want her.

That's why I said most women aren’t equipped for a corporate guy because their values don't align.
 

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White collar and responsible does not equal white adjacent. I can tell by the fact Asians are an option that she likes white adjacent black men. And like I’ve said before, just because there are black men who like her type, doesn’t mean they like HER, or she likes them, or she met them. Stop denying there is a certain segment of black men who prefer to date out. There are a lot of black men who would take her exact aesthetic, but in a non black woman. It is what it is. People like who they like.
“Gainfully employed with a white collar job, no blaccent, responsible, doesn’t listen to a ton of hip hop, likes museums etc.”

^^^That doesn’t make one “white adjacent” or un-receptive to BW. There’s plenty of boule who aren’t super duper hip hop heads. This could be any upper class black man who prefers jazz or “smart” rap.
 

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The less physicality you bring to the table, the more your intangibles have to astronomically better than the next person's.



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I'mma get on her head and see what's the deal.
:wow: Watch a breh work. :pachaha:
Sidenote: One of y'all posted your home girl a couple years ago, I slid in her DMs and got the number just to see
if I could at the time.
She was cool breh, thanks.
 
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“Gainfully employed with a white collar job, no blaccent, responsible, doesn’t listen to a ton of hip hop, likes museums etc.”

^^^That doesn’t make one “white adjacent” or un-receptive to BW. There’s plenty of boule who aren’t super duper hip hop heads. This could be any upper class black man who prefers jazz or “smart” rap.
I already told you I think she is looking for a white adjacent black man. That’s what I meant. It’s what she is specifically looking for, she just said corporate. I also already said white collar doesn’t equal white adjacent. And just because plenty of a certain type of man exists, doesn’t mean she is meeting them, or they are interested in her. Every man isn’t pursuing every woman.
 

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I already told you I think she is looking for a white adjacent black man. That’s what I meant. It’s what she is specifically looking for, she just said corporate. I also already said white collar doesn’t equal white adjacent. And just because plenty of a certain type of man exists, doesn’t mean she is meeting them, or they are interested in her. Every man isn’t pursuing every woman.
Right. But them not being interested in her, doesn’t mean they aren’t interested in other black women, as you asserted at first. Like I said, it might just be her. You kinda made it about, men in those positions having a “type” and that type not being dark skinned black women or liking non white women altogether.
 

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That's why I said most women aren’t equipped for a corporate guy because their values don't align.

@HarlemHottie

a good example of the type of woman that would catch my eye. admittedly, her face is a flat five, but everything else - aura, style, aesthetic is a ten and she would integrate the environments that i'm in with ease. this is the type that would get a ring barring she has a good personality. and with how she presents, you get a good sense of her values. now compare to op.









 
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