Coli Fathers (who raise their kids) Thread

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I don't know how you guys do daughters... that seems stressful.

I have all sons, they are destructive, rough, and don't pick up on being independent as quickly as a girl would - but they are pretty much worry free after the first 10 years or so.

I can't imagine all the worry that would come if I had daughters.

actually its not THAT hard.. i just did what came naturally.
girls are smart tho..at a VERY early age they seem to know it all..
 

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My daughter is 9 and will be 10 in a couple of months. Man, It's hard but it's cool. She's getting to be a little too smart for her own good. My wife and mother are teaching her how to cook. When the snow came to Birmingham last week, she cooked my mother some cheese eggs, patty sausage, link sausage, regular toast, cinnamon toast, fixed some grapes, fixed her some coffee, and orange juice. My mother thought my father helped her but he was in the other room looking at TV. :obama:I was so proud when my mother called and told me that. Growing up she was always with me. So she went everywhere with me. I took her to the barbershop, the drag strip, car shows, pretty much everywhere. Since I had a deadbeat mother I just had to do what I could do but I have plenty of help from friends and family so it's all good.
 

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Im not a single father..but ill be damned if me and her arent having issues raising this 5 y.o.
 

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actually its not THAT hard.. i just did what came naturally.
girls are smart tho..at a VERY early age they seem to know it all..

This...

My daughter is turning two next week. Went all out for her bday, got her some jordans, raiders hoodie and beanie and a barbie power wheel.

She is smart as hell too and its crazy how much of my personality she got. There is nothing in this world id trade for having her.
 

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2 sons, a4 year old and a 1 year old. Both awesome. pretty independent already.
First son had some health issues from birth till about age 2 but fortunately hes overcome them all. 2 nd son eats anything and everything.

Older one already seems to be a techy like me. Hes not a huge tv fan so doesnt watch much. Hes either drawing or playing games on the ipad.
Younger one likes tv too much! So muchso we hardly put on the tv anymore but hed rather stare at a blank screen. :pachaha:
Somehow somewhere my 4 year old has learnt to breakdance. Granma asked him to dance when some music was playing and he started trying to do a handstand and spin on his back?:dwillhuh:
Wonder what theyre teaching them in that nursery.

Love them both with everything i got though. They're a handful but both awesome.
Helps that their mum is pretty great as well.

Oh and having boys:jawalrus:

When my boys get your daughters:wow::takedat::lolbron::shaq:
 

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My daughter is 9 and will be 10 in a couple of months. Man, It's hard but it's cool. She's getting to be a little too smart for her own good. My wife and mother are teaching her how to cook. When the snow came to Birmingham last week, she cooked my mother some cheese eggs, patty sausage, link sausage, regular toast, cinnamon toast, fixed some grapes, fixed her some coffee, and orange juice. My mother thought my father helped her but he was in the other room looking at TV. :obama:I was so proud when my mother called and told me that. Growing up she was always with me. So she went everywhere with me. I took her to the barbershop, the drag strip, car shows, pretty much everywhere. Since I had a deadbeat mother I just had to do what I could do but I have plenty of help from friends and family so it's all good.
:blessed: This nikka got me excited as a muhfukka right now to be a father
 

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:blessed: This nikka got me excited as a muhfukka right now to be a father
Man, don't let anyone tell you different. It's life changing but it's for the better. I just try to do what I'm supposed to do. I'm not perfect by no means and I know she's going to mess up somewhere down the line. But hopefully she won't mess up enough to where she can't learn and bounce back from it and hopefully I can teach her enough to do what she needs to do to be successful/happy in her life.
 

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Man, don't let anyone tell you different. It's life changing but it's for the better. I just try to do what I'm supposed to do. I'm not perfect by no means and I know she's going to mess up somewhere down the line. But hopefully she won't mess up enough to where she can't learn and bounce back from it and hopefully I can teach her enough to do what she needs to do to be successful/happy in her life.

That's wassup man. I can't wait, I love new challenges in life and what greater challenge than to raise a kid. I know it will be hard and sometimes unbearable but in the end it'll be worth it.

Edit: it also helps that my baby's mother isn't a deadbeat... We just not together
 

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I'm having a problem with my husband and him not disciplining our daughter. It's so stressful because he makes me the bad parent. My daughter tells me I'm mean to her and sometimes it makes me want to cry. That is not my intention but someone has to discipline her and he just won't do it. He is looked at as the fun parent and I'm the mean. It's a BIG problem to me and his is ignoring it. He go as far as leaving the house when I spank her, saying it hurts him to hear her cry. I need help brehs.
 

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ok i got 4 kids
3 girls and 1 boy

i love being a father greatest thing in the world too me

my son 8 who is named after me got straight A's in school so proud of him :obama: he loves watching sports with me and movies with me

my other daughter 6 got straight A's also so proud of her :obama: she is very girly i know she is a mommy's girl since her mother raised her with no father around and i popped in when she was around 2 but she a good shyt talker its funny (its appropriate language guys dont worry) ex: i beat her in bowling at the bowling alley and she goes well i beat u in bowling in the wii so u suck too i was like :damn:

my other daughter 5 she is a big daddy's girl always wants too be around me all the time and cuddle with me she loves disney jr and that show wings i know

my other daughter 18 months is a daddy's girl on some whole another level its absurd. she wakes up in the night climbs over my wife and goes and lays on me every damn night i be like :damn: if i leave her with my wife too just get her drink she loses her mind. i cant even go too the bathroom without her acting up

do my kids get in trouble hell yea and they get grounded i dont play that shyt better act right. do good get spoiled act bad gonna be bored out ur mind and cleaning the whole house too and helping me watch ur lil sister

just bought a german sherperd yesterday and this damn dog follows me around like the other dog my wife like what is up with u and females :laff:

were probably gonna go for one more kid which will equal 5 total but its still talk in works

i just raise my kids as best as i can fair no favoritism at all and let them know i love them all the same equally and do things with them when i can as long as my health allows it
we do a lot of movie time i can say that

even though were a blended family we have overcame any doubt people have saying it cant work and made it work with great happiness and then some
 

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Good job Dads:salute:

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I'm having a problem with my husband and him not disciplining our daughter. It's so stressful because he makes me the bad parent. My daughter tells me I'm mean to her and sometimes it makes me want to cry. That is not my intention but someone has to discipline her and he just won't do it. He is looked at as the fun parent and I'm the mean. It's a BIG problem to me and his is ignoring it. He go as far as leaving the house when I spank her, saying it hurts him to hear her cry. I need help brehs.

My parents were like that. I am the only girl. They fought about it. She will understand when she is older. Remember she is a child and lashing out because she doesn't like being punished. But you know you are doing the the right thing. My mother and I have a great relationship now.
 

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I'm having a problem with my husband and him not disciplining our daughter. It's so stressful because he makes me the bad parent. My daughter tells me I'm mean to her and sometimes it makes me want to cry. That is not my intention but someone has to discipline her and he just won't do it. He is looked at as the fun parent and I'm the mean. It's a BIG problem to me and his is ignoring it. He go as far as leaving the house when I spank her, saying it hurts him to hear her cry. I need help brehs.


he need too get over that shyt. I'm looked as the mean parent which I'm perfectly fine cuz i will instill discipline in my kids i dont want too be ur favorite parent i want u too respect me and listen
my wife does discipline them but not as much as or as strong as i do so they will tend too favor her but listen too me more which i prefer

i get it hurts too hear her cry but him doing that in the long run he is the one thats gonna have problems cuz she wont respect him especially if he tries later down the line and she will respect u more cuz u have from the get go. dont let the mean parent thing get too u better too be that and respected then favorite and not respected as she gets older I've seen it happen way too many times.

just tell him and keep reminding him he has too help out and make him be there will ur doing it so she can see that her father is letting it happen and he needs too grow a pair balls no offense and work with u so u can both be a team too get it under control
one parent will always be the nice and favorite while the other wont thats just how it is
 
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