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It depends on how rich/famous the nfl player is. pm me the player's name. Then I'll be able to give a more accurate answer.

Sry G, I know you're an avid LSA user, I've actually seen a thread on her there before. Not him. I don't wanna give names because it'd be pretty easy to track either of em down to this post.

He's a couple years into the league, decent on the field. Not an mvp by any means but plays his role.

But to keep it 100. He seems to be a stand up guy. I'm obviously not well versed in that lifestyle so he could be cheating or fighting with her or whatever the case. Maybe things arent so well. I've never met him personally so idk.
 
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I've done it before to my ex it was just to be polite tho.....but I haven't done it since only about a year after we broke up.. Its just that awkward stage whete ur like should I say hbd cuz u guy r still fizzling out... But after two years I stopped
 

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Welp, after me and the bro not talking for a month he came thru today and over a bottle of jack talked things out. You guys were right.

The nikkas ego is crushed and he still holds some hope out. Apparently he feels guilty because he's in the same place because everytime he tries to move on theres some mental block that keeps him from doing so.

All is good again tho. :salute:Got my bro back, just finished some wings plannin the moves for tonight.
Edit: I'm due for an phone upgrade so we hit the nearest at&t, my dude ended up comin up himself and getting the info to block the number through the actual service instead of just an app. :gladbron:. Maybe he will, maybe he won't.

Special s/o to the coli ladies and @O.T.I.S. and @Emperor_ReinScarf , i got him to read all yall comments and he came clean on whats really good.
 

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Welp, after me and the bro not talking for a month he came thru today and over a bottle of jack talked things out. You guys were right.

The nikkas ego is crushed and he still holds some hope out. Apparently he feels guilty because he's in the same place because everytime he tries to move on theres some mental block that keeps him from doing so.

All is good again tho. :salute:Got my bro back, just finished some wings plannin the moves for tonight.

Special s/o to the coli ladies and @O.T.I.S. and @Emperor_ReinScarf , i got him to read all yall comments and he came clean on whats really good.

make sure he doesnt fall prey on his next bday

hope dies last but it does die

the moment he stops clinging to hope the moment a next brehette will pop up
 

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make sure he doesnt fall prey on his next bday

hope dies last but it does die

the moment he stops clinging to hope the moment a next brehette will pop up

I hope he blocks it. Her bday is coing up real soon and he asked me what I thought about him txting her happy bday. He came clean that he has been responding for the past year to her and wished her happy bday last year too. I told him I'm stayin out of it. But I think this thread really brought him back to reality.
 

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I had to eventually block an ex. Considering the nature of our relationship, I should've blocked him sooner. I advise your friend to do the same. Doesn't sound like any good will come from this.
 

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She either wants his attention (he loves her so much that he'll be there when she feels lonely or she's not getting it from the person she's with...he is someone familiar) or she loves him as a person, just not romantically, and genuinely misses him being a part of her life (in a platonic way).
 

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Welp, after me and the bro not talking for a month he came thru today and over a bottle of jack talked things out. You guys were right.

The nikkas ego is crushed and he still holds some hope out. Apparently he feels guilty because he's in the same place because everytime he tries to move on theres some mental block that keeps him from doing so.

All is good again tho. :salute:Got my bro back, just finished some wings plannin the moves for tonight.
Edit: I'm due for an phone upgrade so we hit the nearest at&t, my dude ended up comin up himself and getting the info to block the number through the actual service instead of just an app. :gladbron:. Maybe he will, maybe he won't.

Special s/o to the coli ladies and @O.T.I.S. and @Emperor_ReinScarf , i got him to read all yall comments and he came clean on whats really good.
thats dope bro
i forgot what I wrote tho :lupe:
 

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She either wants his attention (he loves her so much that he'll be there when she feels lonely or she's not getting it from the person she's with...he is someone familiar) or she loves him as a person, just not romantically, and genuinely misses him being a part of her life (in a platonic way).

I guess where it gets complicated is should a man still hold a grudge half a decade later? I can't really help dude, I don't contact my exes at all. But with him, they were so close for so long, she will prolly always want to be in contact. My bros issue is he wants to know why she tries to stay in contact even though he puts no effort in it.

To which I told him just what u said. But he doesn't buy it's just for attention. He thinks theres something there deep down. :manny: I try to tell my bro she's prolly not checking for dude, she's in the big leagues now lol. :wow:
 

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I guess where it gets complicated is should a man still hold a grudge half a decade later? I can't really help dude, I don't contact my exes at all. But with him, they were so close for so long, she will prolly always want to be in contact. My bros issue is he wants to know why she tries to stay in contact even though he puts no effort in it.

To which I told him just what u said. But he doesn't buy it's just for attention. He thinks theres something there deep down. :manny: I try to tell my bro she's prolly not checking for dude, she's in the big leagues now lol. :wow:
He shouldn't hold a grudge. Sometimes people don't love us the way we want them to love us. He has to stop trying to look for answers, but he's still trying to justify it because he has feelings for her (he wants there to be more deep down, so he's telling himself that).
 

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I mean, if you all that with your NFL boyfriend and celeb status, why
are you texting me? :what:

Some people, despite how life has blessed them, are emotional vampires.
Attention , at the very least, is the last thing this bytch needs.

I'm with Scarf on this one :camby:
He needs to tell that brawd to have a nice life.
Not even on some bitter shyt. The key is indifference, which is a
hard place to get to when you love hard
 
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