coli ladies when you friendzone a guy

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

If she is just using you then fine but if she has a genuine interest in you as a friend then I don't see why that should be ruined.

She's using you, it's just that it's not consciously known . She's using you for validation, entertainment and emotional support. When she's not busy getting railed by some other nikka is when she hits you up for these purposes. You literally fill up her day.

Also it's not in your benefit to be known platonically with other females. Women want what other women want.

If a woman you want finds out that you were rejected and friendzoned by this other woman, you will be deemed worthless.

 

[swimmingpools]

If I were to friendzone a guy, I'd encourage him with advice on how to get this woman because that would mean he would now be up under her, a woman that may be interested in him, instead of me. Which is a win-win situation if its a guy I'm not interested in.

 

[karim]

If I were to friendzone a guy, I'd encourage him with advice on how to get this woman because that would mean he would now be up under her, a woman that may be interested in him, instead of me. Which is a win-win situation if its a guy I'm not interested in.

I don't know, I have limited experience with these things. Maybe different woman handle these things differently. But the two times in my life bytches tried to friendzone me, the girls in question started acting funny as soon as I threw them in the bushes and focused on other woman. They saw me as property they didn't want other woman to have. One in particular managed to show up every time she knew i was with another girl.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@YaBoy I don't reach out to any guy so by definition I haven't friendzoned anyone. The ones who like me, who I have given no reason to think it's mutual and still hang around do it to themselves. That's what I've been saying this whole time

Didn't hate the situation nor did I say I felt like a hostage. I could've said something at anytime and eventually I did.. So don't think I wasn't saying anything just because. I was trying to read the person...


I just didn't understand the reason a female would attempt to make a straight guy her BFF without any care to date them. Unless they grew up as damn near related or something... And a lot of females try to do this

If I'm NOT interested in a woman, I don't call/text her everyday about damn near everything... Not just for her "female perspective" on shyt

So yeah, answer is somewhat understandable but not fully.

Yeah I don't understand it either. I have a friend who reaches out to guys she's "friends" with but I think it's genuine, she's trying to maintain contact so as not to slide into acquaintance. That said I don't know how often they chat, one of the guys I keep telling her she should give him a chance but she's not sure they're compatible but she'd want to work out with him and stuff....that guy is probably really confused about the situation

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

I don't know, I have limited experience with these things. Maybe different woman handle these things differently. But the two times in my life bytches tried to friendzone me, the girls in question started acting funny as soon as I threw them in the bushes and focused on other woman. They saw me as property they didn't want other woman to have. One in particular managed to show up every time she knew i was with another girl.

Co-sign...this is woman logic...as soon as they see you getting attention from the other (attractive) female her interest skyrockets again. You are now of value to her.

 

[NobodyReally]

I don't lie to any of my friends. I tell them what I think but I always qualify it as "this is just my opinion". So I wouldn't speak on behalf of the entire female gender about anyone being attractive/desirable. I'd tell him what I thought women would like about him, and, if he asked, I'd tell him what women may not like about him.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

@YaBoy I don't reach out to any guy so by definition I haven't friendzoned anyone. The ones who like me, who I have given no reason to think it's mutual and still hang around do it to themselves. That's what I've been saying this whole time




Yeah I don't understand it either. I have a friend who reaches out to guys she's "friends" with but I think it's genuine, she's trying to maintain contact so as not to slide into acquaintance. That said I don't know how often they chat, one of the guys I keep telling her she should give him a chance but she's not sure they're compatible but she'd want to work out with him and stuff....that guy is probably really confused about the situation

I'm sure he is

 

[old_timer]

i got the doc rivers stare the last time i spoke on this
but i used to collect simpettes here or there
women trying to be "friendly" but they are either timid or traditional
wanting the guy to make a move

personally i would go ahead and have sex with them (under certain conditions)
but i never told them my business or got emotional
i just liked having them around

i remember back when i moved into a new place
i was about 24- times were tough for me
this 40-50 year old white school teacher kept popping up-
mailbox, laundry room, whenever i'd take my dog out
always seeming to "bump" into me
trying real hard to make conversation

so i gave her a copy of my key and asked her to walk my dog everyday at 4 PM
made it seem like my job was killing me, keeping me late
she was happy to do it
but really- i'd be at the gym or just didn't want to struggle with trafic

i could also call her up at 3 and ask if she wanted to eat dinner together
which would turn into her cooking at my place
which would require her to go grocery shopping for me
i'd reimburse her for the groceries..well, usually

she always brought some weed with her
so..we'd have dinner and then we'd fukk
and she'd have to hurry back home before her kids got suspicous

i probably had sex with her 15 times over 6 months
but yeah, she was holding it down for me

when i moved, my dog was like what's this after dark shyt?? what happened to my 4 o'clock friend??

 

[Knicksman20]

See now you gonna have me side eyeing my male friends.

 

[Ello_Vee]

@old_timer got me feeling bad for his dog and not his neighbor.

 

[swimmingpools]

I don't know, I have limited experience with these things. Maybe different woman handle these things differently. But the two times in my life bytches tried to friendzone me, the girls in question started acting funny as soon as I threw them in the bushes and focused on other woman. They saw me as property they didn't want other woman to have. One in particular managed to show up every time she knew i was with another girl.

Yeah I wasn't saying that there arent women that like to see men they don't like, be interested in them. I've seen that plenty. I was speaking personally. If I dont like you, and you find someone else that may then by all means spread your wings and leave me alone. If I "friendzone" you, it is not a standby position.