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Friendship is like getting a blue ribbon. It ain't the first place trophy. "No guts, no glory" takes on another meaning.

If you didn't want her as a friend when you first approached, 9/10 you lost. The only good female friends I ever had I met by chance and we clicked. The girls I tried to pursue and took the consolation prize...was never worth it. Thread coming soon:mjcry:


You keep saying this breh :laugh:

But you were right in another thread....you can't show any 'good man' potential in this dating game or chicks will put you in the serious relationship box, rather than the fun box


I think nikkas take the friendzone treatment too hard. Ok so she wouldn't let you hit. That don't mean ya'll can't still be friends unless she played you. You never know what might happen in the future. Plus if you just up and leave after that, she'll just see you as every other dude that came her way. Women look for something different. Not the same lame ass dude that tried to hit, got mad and moved on because he didn't. You can still be her friend and try to take down other females at the same time.

True, I mean you might can work your way in eventually. And some chicks curve you at first so they don't appear as tho they are 'that kinda girl' :heh:

But on the flip side, why waste your time. Who cares if she sees you a certain way if it's not worth ur time to begin with. Her opinion doesnt matter if she's curving you and messing w/ another dude(s).
 

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True, I mean you might can work your way in eventually. And some chicks curve you at first so they don't appear as tho they are 'that kinda girl' :heh:

But on the flip side, why waste your time. Who cares if she sees you a certain way if it's not worth ur time to begin with. Her opinion doesnt matter if she's curving you and messing w/ another dude(s).
I was just always taught to never treat anyone different just because everything doesn't go your way. Unless they played/cross you.
 

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If she is just using you then fine but if she has a genuine interest in you as a friend then I don't see why that should be ruined.

if men only want female friends for sex, then women only want male friends for companionship.

For a woman, companionship//attention from man is = to what men get outta sex from women
 

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You keep saying this breh :laugh:

But you were right in another thread.
For real this time:mjcry:
Anything I thought of starting a thread, I stopped because I didn't have all my thoughts together for it. I'm just waiting on my muse. One
thread flop and im leaving the coli, hence why I only have one thread. It didn't do numbers but it didn't flop.
 

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I was just always taught to never treat anyone different just because everything doesn't go your way. Unless they played/cross you.

that's good advice in life/business, perhaps....but dating you can't be like that. You can't be the nice guy....every jerk or no bs guy now, was prob one time a nice guy.

This older black dude at my gym told me, "don't be afraid to fire they(women) ass....b/c they'll fire you in a heartbeat if another dude is avaliable"

And to be honest, if ur a nice guy, every female is not worthy of being your friend.

She might be telling you one thing, while shes driving on the way to another dudes house. You're playing ourself if you keep being "friends" with her after she turned you down. We've all done it though :wow: at least once
 
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For real this time:mjcry:
Anything I thought of starting a thread, I stopped because I didn't have all my thoughts together for it. I'm just waiting on my muse. One
thread flop and im leaving the coli, hence why I only have one thread. It didn't do numbers but it didn't flop.

lol....breh, look at my rep/daps. Yet, I've dropped many a thread that bombed, not b/c they werent good. Sometimes a thread will flop, then 6 months later it becomes a hit
 

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lol....breh, look at my rep/daps. Yet, I've dropped many a thread that bombed, not b/c they werent good. Sometimes a thread will flop, then 6 months later it becomes a hit
:whoa:My ego is fragile. I wanna be like Kanye and drop byke to byke to byke classics:mjcry:
 

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that's good advice in life/business, perhaps....but dating you can't be like that. You can't be the nice guy....every jerk or no bs guy now, was prob one time a nice guy.

This older black dude at my gym told me, "don't be afraid to fire they(women) ass....b/c they'll fire you in a heartbeat if another dude is avaliable"

And to be honest, if ur a nice guy, every female is not worthy of being your friend.

She might be telling you one thing, while shes driving on the way to another dudes house. You're playing ourself if you keep being "friends" with her after she turned you down. We've all done it though :wow: at least once


yep

unless she lives in a different country or different state then :camby:
 

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if men only want female friends for sex, then women only want male friends for companionship.

For a woman, companionship//attention from man is = to what men get outta sex from women

the thing is I wouldn't mind being friends with a female hell I have been but I seen it time and time again. Only when there life is in shambles, dumped, need money, a ride etc. do they pop up. Rarely will it be hey jadillac just wondering how your life is going and then you go and talk
 
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I mostly agree that having female friends doesn't really work out too well. If I'm in a relationship I can't be having them around and same thing if they are in one, we just stop talking altogether. There's not enough trust in our society for people to just be friends and all parties are gonna be cool with it, etc..

However, I will give you an example of how I did become friends with a couple females at work. These females were very open about their relationships and who they were fukkin and I didn't really view them as females I wanted to get with, they are good looking but definitely not my type at all. So we start talkin about our relationships and now we are friends and give advice to one another, it's understood that we don't want one another. :manny:
 
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