Coli relationship experts — why do we attract certain “types”?

[The Burger King]

This could also apply to a person’s mentality, but I’m mostly talking in terms of physicality.

On Thanksgiving, I brought a brehette I’m dealing with by my parents house for like 30 minutes just so they could meet her.

When I went by the house again today my parents and my brother pointed out that she looks like all my other exes and it made me start thinking…

I definitely attract a certain type of woman.

By “attract” I mean these women usually approach me, not the other way around.

Usually slim, dark skinned women with very model-like features.

I’ve also been approached by a lot of short, but athletic, Latina broads. But I’m not really into Hispanic women like that so my dealings with them are almost non-existent.

I myself am tall, light skinned and lean (some muscle but not a whole lot). I’ve been told I resemble Dave East (or Maxwell by older folks).

I’ve had sex with all types of different women, but when it comes to the women that I attract the most and end up dating, they all kinda resemble Brandy (which I don’t mind because I always thought Brandy was bad).

But I was just wondering if anyone else has any experiences with something like this?

Impart a young breh with some wisdom/knowledge.

 

[re'up]

We tend to circle back to childhood impulses or attraction, and those patterns can either help, or hurt you, example, people's whose first relationships were abusive or unhealthy, or with dysfunctional people

But, also realize when you want to move beyond them, if only to have the experience.

I find all kinds of people attractive, but I can point exactly back to three girl when I was n in middle school, and one when I was 18, that have defined a lot of my attractions over the years. A few months ago I made a list of all the major women in my life, and classified by a few categories, and qualified for level of attraction, level of intimacy, and physical features. Found a lot of patterns.

 

[Anton]

because i love blonde and blue eye women… i watched too much Buffy the vampire slayer as a kid.

 

[old pig]

I don’t have a physical type but I definitely attract ho’s…at 16 it confused me bcuz I mistook that feeling of lust I put forth with love…once I got in tune with myself tho it was smooth sailings…I keep good women as friends but I love fukking with ho’s

 

[Shadow King]

People generally like what's different from them to promote genetic diversity. With us in particular some would also say childhood complexion/feature issues.

 

[The Burger King]

We tend to circle back to childhood impulses or attraction, and those patterns can either help, or hurt you, example, people's whose first relationships were abusive or unhealthy, or with dysfunctional people

But, also realize when you want to move beyond them, if only to have the experience.

I find all kinds of people attractive, but I can point exactly back to three girl when I was n in middle school, and one when I was 18, that have defined a lot of my attractions over the years. A few months ago I made a list of all the major women in my life, and classified by a few categories, and qualified for level of attraction, level of intimacy, and physical features. Found a lot of patterns.

What you’re saying makes sense but it seems to apply to what we are attracted to, not who is attracted to us, unless I’m misunderstanding your post.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I attract all types.... tiddies be tiddying

 

[old pig]

We tend to circle back to childhood impulses or attraction, and those patterns can either help, or hurt you, example, people's whose first relationships were abusive or unhealthy, or with dysfunctional people

But, also realize when you want to move beyond them, if only to have the experience.

I find all kinds of people attractive, but I can point exactly back to three girl when I was n in middle school, and one when I was 18, that have defined a lot of my attractions over the years. A few months ago I made a list of all the major women in my life, and classified by a few categories, and qualified for level of attraction, level of intimacy, and physical features. Found a lot of patterns.

my earliest memory goes back to 6

I know its “cool” on here to get molested by older girls/women but it definitely has long term effects for better AND for worse

 

[re'up]

What you’re saying makes sense but it seems to apply to what we are attracted to, not who is attracted to us, unless I’m misunderstanding your post.

On some level, attraction has to be mutual, and someone finding YOU attractive can be very alluring, whether you are aware or not.

 

[UpAndComing]

because i love blonde and blue eye women… i watched too much Buffy the vampire slayer as a kid.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

because i love blonde and blue eye women… i watched too much Buffy the vampire slayer as a kid.

 

[re'up]

my earliest memory goes back to 6

I know its “cool” on here to get molested by older girls/women but it definitely has long term effects for better AND for worse

Doesn't sound cool man. I had a close friend who was really badly impacted by something like that, though he would never admit it, but it made him take advantage of others the same way it was done to him. I would talk to someone about it, a professional, if that's an option.

 

[old pig]

Doesn't sound cool man. I had a close friend who was really badly impacted by something like that, though he would never admit it, but it made him take advantage of others the same way it was done to him. I would talk to someone about it, a professional, if that's an option.

fortunately I’m not that fukked up (I just like eating p*ssy more than I should lol) but I feel you tho

 

[humminbird]

i think the question is why are we attracted to certain types of women
I'm curious about this too

 

[jeh]

Well you own a billion dollar fast food chains​