It’s a combination of self concept, and energy. If you have underlying beliefs about your life, you are more likely to attract those same circumstances, and types of people. Like attracts like, and some people are there to teach each other lessons. But if we don’t learn those lessons, we have to keep doing it over again.
Plus, we live in a society that doesn’t encourage self reflection, self awareness, or self improvement. A lot of people don’t consider how their behavior, or personality can trigger certain responses in another person. For instance, a man can say he attracts crazy women, but it could
simply be he doesn’t give her enough quality time, not responding to texts for hours, doesn’t care about her needs, and is cheating, lying, etc. Then when the woman has a meltdown, or texts again after not getting a response for a couple hours, she’s crazy. You have to consider you are not the first man she’s dealt with. With that said, those women put up with those men, and he can’t treat her that way, unless she allows it. Women are taught to change, and fix men. Since they like you, they expect you to morph into whatever they want, as opposed to accepting you as you are.
And as we’ve seen on the coli, men want to do the absolute bare minimum, and expect Beyoncé with Martha Stewart cooking skills to drop panties night one, or before commuting to a relationship. Men and women are not given them same advice. Women view almost every man as a potential husband, and he becomes her project. Most men just want to have a good time, and aren’t putting timelines on marriage and kids, because our biological clocks are longer, and we can be 40, and pull a 30 year old.
but overall I can tell you there's another side to the 6 figure experience that doesn't have women banging your door down.
