Coli relationship experts — why do we attract certain “types”?

[Digital Omen]

Your first love/girlfriend is the blueprint for the rest of your life

My high school sweetheart...man oh man
She had long curly hair, you know the spirals?
That's my kryptonite
She was also artistic, used to paint and write poems
And we used to talk about any and everything
Kind of high school couple that would skip a day and instead of some house party (I mean we did that too but not all the time)
We would go to the downtown main library and spend all day in the stacks

Those attributes are the bare minimum for me to take a woman seriously
She absolutely must have curly hair
Into self-expression and art
Intelligent and can talk about whatever, so we can build together
Like my new girl now

 

[LevelUp]

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[Kiyoshi-Dono]

My high school sweetheart...man oh man
She had long curly hair, you know the spirals?
That's my kryptonite
She was also artistic, used to paint and write poems
And we used to talk about any and everything
Kind of high school couple that would skip a day and instead of some house party (I mean we did that too but not all the time)
We would go to the downtown main library and spend all day in the stacks

Those attributes are the bare minimum for me to take a woman seriously
She absolutely must have curly hair
Into self-expression and art
Intelligent and can talk about whatever, so we can build together
Like my new girl now

Two things I’ve learned in this life when it comes to women
We look for qualities our mothers had
No Oedipus
We try to duplicate our first loves with each and every other woman that comes into our lives
It’s almost like trying to fix our past in a sense of what could have been if both parties were older, wiser and actually had the tools to keep that relationship going for a lifetime
At the very base it’s like children and their first crush or the introduction to a feeling we couldn’t explain verbally but we knew we liked that feeling around that person
It’s also animalistic as well in the sense that even though we have evolved more emotionally than our animal counterparts( still ongoing studies on different species having just as much emotional intelligence as us)
We know what we like, when we see(that’s also including our animal base pheromones)
I promise if everybody really took the time off they have right now
And start writing down each relationship they ever had
It will bring them back to one
I don’t think many people are ready for that though
It’s some trippy shyt when you write it all out on paper
Especially if the tether to all mates was something trauma based in bonding or trying to save them(people like them)

 

[rabbid]

Your first love/girlfriend is the blueprint for the rest of your life

Nah I havent dated or attracted a big booty hoodrat in years.

Nowadays its just off kilter single moms, random geeky/quirky white girls with round butts, and very seldom Chloe/Halle type girls. Everything else I have to approach myself.

 

[Savvir]

I attract women of all socioeconomic statuses and backgrounds

It's just the damaged sluts that CONSISTENTLY make open approaches and put in the most effort.....

It's to the point that if a chick approaches me in any situation, I know for a fact something is off...

Like... I stopped going to strip clubs in the past because 3/5 times a chick will want to link up with me after (no money involved)... even matched with strippers on dating sites.

Gonna start messing with high quality 6's now

 

[Armchair Militant]

Attract?

Word. Can’t relate to this thread at all. #Uglygang