Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

[Yinny]

Are you overweight? Be honest...

Yep, but he Def is so I’m not sure how he’s a personal trainer?

 

[Rawtid]

This is chess not checkers baby bro.

fixed.

 

[Just like bruddas]

@Damisa-Sarki has been out with me, not to put him on blast but do I act like a meal-hungry chicken head? I won’t be mad if you say yeah.

Meal hungry chicken head? Girl bye!

 

[...o3]

You have no self-respect.

:youdontsay::youdontsay::youdontsay:...care to expound?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

fixed.

Thanks lol

 

[Sccit]

SOUNDS LIKE A LITTLE BOY BASED ON YOUR STORY.... IF U LOOKIN FOR SOMETHIN SERIOUS KIP.

 

[Phantum]

You from Jersey City OP?

 

[Rawtid]

Thanks lol

No problem LOL! I usually "rep" corrections, but it told me to slow down

 

[Yinny]

You from Jersey City OP?

Nah, Newark but I’m there every once in a blue-very familiar. And we ended up somewhere further down the parkway in Union county.

 

[Sccit]

Using Jedi mind tricks instead of saying what you mean, huh

THATS WHAT IT IS BRODIE..A LOT OF WOMEN NOWADAYS ARE SOCIOPATHS WHO USE MIND GAMES TO GET WHAT THEY WANT. VERY HARD TO FIND A GENUINE ONE WHOS STRAIGHT UP.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

...i wouldn't say you were being a b***h at all. i'll say this to you like i would say this to my little sister...son asked you out, then had you pay for your own food. unbeknownst to him, he friend zoned himself with that s**t.

on all of my dates, i stayed my true self but i always stayed tried to put myself in the best light possible when selling myself. my paying for food or drinks wasn't an ego trip, or me trying to prove a point or anything other than it being my way of saying "thank you luv for spending this time with ya boy--you could have been anywhere in the world, but you are here with me."

90 percent of the time for us, the endgame is clapping them cheeks, so the least we can do when we ask y'all out is pay. by paying we're literally saying thanks for listening to our sales pitch.

Gah damm u have a clown way of thinking

 

[Hungerpain]

OP is a clown

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Why are you even referencing my post? Don't speak on me. I ain't said shyt to or about you even though you lied about keeping ya ass out of TLR.

 

[...o3]

Gah damm u have a clown way of thinking

...please explain..........sweet meat

 

[KodeBlue]

That's not "women" thinking, that's birds clucking - for self importance. She's not representative bc at a certain point, women are discerning enough to not waste time with men that don't have redeeming qualities that they like. Most women are not entertaining the thought of a date until we have time to evaluate. The reason why she felt the need to go on a dinner date (emphasis on dinner) with a dude that she wasn't into (or so she claims)is to feel a sense of control bc the actual men that she wants are not giving her the feedback or ego boost. If she was really into dude - a walk at a public scenic spot is a good option for getting to know another person. Restaurant dates are impersonal and routine. She's playing the game to not get played. (Just fyi - not all of us think like her and don't have the mindset. There is enough negativity and stereotypes as it is. if a woman is receptive enough to go on a "pre-date" or meetup initially, without having or expecting you to come out the pocket - then at least she's not with the superficial).

There are a lot of birds out here saying the same. thing that she said. They don't have incentive to stop because you have just as many simps out here pumping these girl's head up with free validation.