Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

[CarmelBarbie]

I was waiting for you to find this thread

But I can't rock with you on chili's being garbage. I just went to near my house, for the first time in years and the food was bomb. Totally exceeded my expectations for the price I paid. It's about to be my new go to spot lowkey.

I got extremely sick the last time I had chili’s. Outside of college and high school kids, I didn’t realize grown over 30 crowd goes there for dates. You learn something new everyday.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Lmao

I’ll be like “lemme join you, I’m hungry too”

And I'd me like "Sorry I just met you. I don't know you like that. Call me. " And that would be that.

 

[...o3]

I have no problem paying for dates. Unless she insists on paying, I will cover but it isn't because it is "my way of saying thanks for blessing me with her time."

You devalue yourself with that fukkery.

...so your issue with my post was me generalizing why dudes pay for the dates, but you do have your own reasons for why you pay for dates? ok, noted. thanks for the reply.

 

[Balla]

And I'd me like "Sorry I just met you. I don't know you like that. Call me. " And that would be that.

So if I got you some food I could come through then is what you’re saying?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

...so your issue with my post was me generalizing why dudes pay for the dates, but you do have your own reasons for why you pay for dates? ok, noted. thanks for the reply.

People are afraid to be nice and appreciate each other. That's why relationships are in the toilet, people too good to place value in another person outside their own selfish reasons. You said nothing wrong

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So if I got you some food I could come through then is what you’re saying?

Nah you're way off base. The conversation is about going out to eat not carry out. If you so pressed to get in my house at that point I know you have no real interest in me. I wouldn't even talk to you again at the suggestion.

 

[fkthisgaysite]

At first I thought you were in tha texts cuz your tone but then I read everything else

Dude lame. Surprised you even waited.

 

[Balla]

...so your issue with my post was me generalizing why dudes pay for the dates, but you do have your own reasons for why you pay for dates? ok, noted. thanks for the reply.

It’s just the way you said it bruh,

“Thank you for blessing me with this date, I’ll pay your meal for you”

Why can’t she thank you? Are you not to be thanked? You gonna have to put in the work the whole time on the date anyway.

 

[Balla]

Nah you're way off base. The conversation is about going out to eat not carry out. If you so pressed to get in my house at that point I know you have no real interest in me. I wouldn't even talk to you again at the suggestion.

So if he bought you dinner and y’all went y’all separate ways after, that would be better?

 

[...o3]

People are afraid to be nice and appreciate each other. That's why relationships are in the toilet, people too good to place value in another person outside their own selfish reasons. You said nothing wrong

...i didn't think i said anything far fetched or out in left field, but i seemed to have gotten some of the bruhs tight.

 

[...o3]

It’s just the way you said it bruh,

“Thank you for blessing me with this date, I’ll pay your meal for you”

Why can’t she thank you? Are you not to be thanked? You gonna have to put in the work the whole time on the date anyway.

...but i never wrote that.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

I'm in my early 30s and he's a supervisor of security sites and is a personal trainer, offered for us to "work out" together. The thing is I def don't find him attractive but I assumed maybe he just looked rough the first time we met. He actually looks slow and dresses very poorly, so I'm pretty sure I have my answer as far as whether I can see myself with him (issa no.) But it was just a weird experience and I wanted too know if I was just tripping or is something off about him like I thought?

You too old to act like this

 

[Balla]

...but i never wrote that.

I paraphrased,

You said “thank you for spending time with ya boy, you could have been anywhere in the world, but you’re here with me”.

She should feel the same way.

 

[...o3]

I paraphrased,

You said “thank you for spending time with ya boy, you could have been anywhere in the world, but you’re here with me”.

She should feel the same way.

...and they did......at least i thought, but why wouldn't i feel obligated to pay if i asked them out?

 

[...o3]

@Yinny my bad, i can't help but to feel like i derailed your thread.