Coli, was I being a bytch to my date? Story/texts inside..

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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You lost him in the text. He seemed enthusiastic and into you but when you basically said it would be "boring" to just sit with him you lost him which his probably why he was late, disinterested and didn't want to pay.

You shot yourself in the foot before the date even started.

People are saying he wasn't interested. That's not the case. You lost his interest with the language you used and also made it seem like you were just looking to be entertained.

Go back and read your texts as if you were him; a guy interested in a woman.

Men are VERY sensitive. You gotta watch your language. Sometimes less is more.
 

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He picked "Chili's"

Yeah ya both Lawst.

How you gonna entertain dating a man who picks Chili's in Jersey City? NYC right across the water...
Was waiting for this obvious reply.

Dude didn't think of op if he's suggesting chili's.

That's more of casual and safe spot, than I'm seriously interested.
 

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" I decided it'd be okay if he took me out for a formal date"

That's what caught my attention. How do men let women think that they can "let" us do them a favor?
Exactly. These bytches are so narcissistic and pretentious, they don’t even realize the bullshyt that be coming out of their mouths. Smh. All these simps and suckers have gassed these chicks heads up to the point that the good majority of them are insufferable and intolerable. Sounds like homie dodged a bullet to me :manny:
 

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I say no!

You went out in to the wild!

When you need to stay here within the coli realm:mjlit:


I know quite a few good coli brehs that would’ve treated you right and gave you a good time :shaq:


Drop that zero:camby: and get with the coli heros:lolbron:
Send the medium ugly fellas with a good sense of humor my way...preciate it breh
 

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If you think you're lonely now, ohhh girl...
He don’t like you. Move on. He probably just wants to smash. If a man is trying to impress you, he’s going to be on time if not early. Most men offer to pay at least in my experience.


Dead ass. He doesn’t even like you like that. Some women be thinking they’re so smart. :mjlol:

He’s playing you too. He was probably going to flake on you, but thought better of it once you hit him up. He’s trying to smash with minimum effort, but he ain’t feeling you like that. A dude telling you he went to the UPS Store when he was supposed to be meeting you, and you think you going Dutch hurt him? :usure:
 
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Please don't lead people on. You don't seem to like him at all. Why make him think he has a chance, and potentially hurt his feelings when you already know you're not with it?
THIS yet still tryna be mad with him smh with all due respect some of yall legit dumb as fukk when it come to having common sense.
 
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