how the heck... I guess in not coming across clearly
I'm not saying the "exact same thing " because I'm not defending whites or excusing their behavior which is what whites are doing when they claim reverse racism. Im acknowledging how blacks are viewed worldwide and wondering why only white racism matters to non white groups and why they don't address their own issue that does the same thing to us. Im guessing you didn't grow up around a lot of nonwhite people? They bytch and moan about what white people do to them all the while perpetuating the SAME racism to black people. I just want to know what he has to say about that.
Example: the movie Bend It Like Beckham. The protagonist is a Hindi British girl fighting racism in soccer. In one scene she's in the locker room with her teammates and they are running down the list of ethnic groups she can date. When they mention blacks she gives them this look like

Why the hell would I want a black man?" And even says there's no way in hell. Yet the rest of the movie im supposed to care about the racism she faces when falling in love with an Irishman when she just dissed black people? I turned the movie off.
Or the Indian kid I knew whose parents wouldn't allow black kids in the house.
Or the Asian professor I had who talked about whites being racist but was deathly prejudiced against black men.
Look, what this man is saying is real and honest and perhaps the best way to explain reverse racism and how it's a moot argument. And what I'm talking about pro a my doesn't apply to him as a person (he's married to a black woman btw). I just had to to say it. I see it all the time and it's annoying.