Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
I thought women were calling this netflix and chill now ?
Ma'am....everytime Im mention my southern roots, first thing I get is "gumbo" this and that, red beans etc and it only ends up with me cooking it for them...my red beans will put weight on ya though....
I'm only slim bc my natural pattern is intermittent fasting. This week I made blackened catfish, yaki udon with shrimp, and a cheat beef bourguignon (more of a stir fry, but it was giving). Aside from dinner, I might graze on fruit, nuts, a small salad.
When I don't, I just... don't. 
I'm fenna head down there tonight to NO. Gotta big event Saturday and I'm eat so much catfish lolI'm only slim bc my natural pattern is intermittent fasting. This week I made blackened catfish, yaki udon with shrimp, and a cheat beef bourguignon (more of a stir fry, but it was giving). Aside from dinner, I might graze on fruit, nuts, a small salad.
When I eat, I eat.When I don't, I just... don't.
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Dudes then be shocked when they stuck with a bum bytch lmfaoI be having debates with my chef partner about this. He always be telling me how home cooked meal is his go to for the ladies and guaranteed action. I be telling him, that off principle, I’m not cooking for these hoes, even if I was a good ass chef. My point be to him, that these hoes still coming to pound town regardless. The fukk I look like cooking trying to impress these women. That’s too much work. My boy be like whatever nikka, still gon cook these meals for these hoes.
Everytime I've cooked for a woman, I got p*ssy that night. No lies told
AmenSome of us are ugly
We have to cook
Fred

The thing you do the most determines what a person will see you as.
Good at cooking and do it as a nice gesture? Congratulations you're now the household cook.
Sit and listen to problems? Congratulations now that's the primary reason you'll be spoken to.
Well organized and clean? Congratulations you're now the cleaner and organizer of the home.
You see where I'm going with this. If you become the kind of person that does something well, you better get used to doing it all the time because that will be the reason you're interacted with and your role in the relationship.
Good luck out there. I'm gonna cook myself a nice stir fry and kick back with an ice cold brew while I watch some highlights![]()
Yeah if you're a pushover you will be those things. It sounds like you let people take advantage of you
and now spreading your experience to others like it's normal.Buy cookbooks and start cooking.How'd y'all get your skills up though?

How'd y'all get your skills up though?
I'm jealous. We have to cook well bc we so far away from home.I'm fenna head down there tonight to NO. Gotta big event Saturday and I'm eat so much catfish lol


I made the chik fil a burger, lemme find the video I followed.I'm trying to get better at air frying homemade chicken tenders.
My goal is to make em just like Chik-Fil-A![]()