cooking a meal for a woman about to be an act of luxury soon

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Ma'am....everytime Im mention my southern roots, first thing I get is "gumbo" this and that, red beans etc and it only ends up with me cooking it for them... :wow: my red beans will put weight on ya though....
:skip: I'm only slim bc my natural pattern is intermittent fasting. This week I made blackened catfish, yaki udon with shrimp, and a cheat beef bourguignon (more of a stir fry, but it was giving). Aside from dinner, I might graze on fruit, nuts, a small salad.

When I eat, I eat. :eat:When I don't, I just... don't. :yeshrug:
 

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:skip: I'm only slim bc my natural pattern is intermittent fasting. This week I made blackened catfish, yaki udon with shrimp, and a cheat beef bourguignon (more of a stir fry, but it was giving). Aside from dinner, I might graze on fruit, nuts, a small salad.

When I eat, I eat. :eat:When I don't, I just... don't. :yeshrug:
I'm fenna head down there tonight to NO. Gotta big event Saturday and I'm eat so much catfish lol
 

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I be having debates with my chef partner about this. He always be telling me how home cooked meal is his go to for the ladies and guaranteed action. I be telling him, that off principle, I’m not cooking for these hoes, even if I was a good ass chef. My point be to him, that these hoes still coming to pound town regardless. The fukk I look like cooking trying to impress these women. That’s too much work. My boy be like whatever nikka, still gon cook these meals for these hoes.
Dudes then be shocked when they stuck with a bum bytch lmfao

“I’ll wash the dishes while you cook”

bytch i got a dishwasher lmfao.

If dude wanna be a chef then make chick buy the groceries
 

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The thing you do the most determines what a person will see you as.

Good at cooking and do it as a nice gesture? Congratulations you're now the household cook.

Sit and listen to problems? Congratulations now that's the primary reason you'll be spoken to.

Well organized and clean? Congratulations you're now the cleaner and organizer of the home.

You see where I'm going with this. If you become the kind of person that does something well, you better get used to doing it all the time because that will be the reason you're interacted with and your role in the relationship.

Good luck out there. I'm gonna cook myself a nice stir fry and kick back with an ice cold brew while I watch some highlights ✌️


What kind of bullshyt is this?:mjlol: Yeah if you're a pushover you will be those things. It sounds like you let people take advantage of you:umad: and now spreading your experience to others like it's normal.
 

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How'd y'all get your skills up though?
Buy cookbooks and start cooking.

Try different kinds of dishes and see what you enjoy making.

Those meal prep services were a good starting point for me, I would cook for my mom with those.

Since they give you all the ingredients, it was easy.

Some spices go together, some don't. Once you feel confident, you just start experimenting.

I'm trying to get better at air frying homemade chicken tenders.

My goal is to make em just like Chik-Fil-A :ahh:
 
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