Cőon behavior you witnessed at work

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I was on my 2nd month at a job and one morning, i said "what up, brotha" to this Black dude.

He just looked at me like :sitdown:.

10 minutes later, he pulls me to the side and says "Dont refer to me as brother if you dont address the white workers the same way. I want to work in racial harmony"


:dahell:

I guess yall might say I acted like a c00n, but hell it is what it is.
I was at a contract with the state and a co-worker came up to me with they wassup brother and gave me dap.
I told him I'm cool with dapping, but my name is ________ and just call me that, because I don't call anyone brother or homie or anything like that.
We're still cool so maybe I was able to say it right and not come off as c00nin, that and I typically get on everyone so no one thinks I play favorites.
:ehh:
:ohhh::dwillhuh:Y'all work together ?
 

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Thats the thing. Its not the secret to get ahead.

Its an "easy" way out.
That's like the idiots who think that the only way to be successful in something like the music industry is by being a back stabbing two faced fakkit. Its makes it easier, but its not the only way.

You can still be successful while keeping all your morals intact.

I'll rather make 60,000 a year knowing I stayed true to myself, the values my mom and family put in me growing up, and my culture, than making 100k being a bootlicking c00n who can't even look myself in the mirror.
:banderas: that pride will fukk with you
 

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Thats the thing. Its not the secret to get ahead.

Its an "easy" way out.
That's like the idiots who think that the only way to be successful in something like the music industry is by being a back stabbing two faced fakkit. Its makes it easier, but its not the only way.

You can still be successful while keeping all your morals intact.

I'll rather make 60,000 a year knowing I stayed true to myself, the values my mom and family put in me growing up, and my culture, than making 100k being a bootlicking c00n who can't even look myself in the mirror.

Amen to this!

Nobody has to sell out to move up in this world. In fact, the more c00nish you act the harder it'll be for you.
 

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Lack of self respect and integrity always leads to a poor end

What if you have no degree and make 25K because of circumstances, while keeping your pride and respect? Thats the reality for most. Everybody aint out here making 50 or 60 Gs a year. And yes I've seen the comfortable Blacks move up more often in the work place. It is what it is
 

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What if you have no degree and make 25K because of circumstances, while keeping your pride and respect? Thats the reality for most. Everybody aint out here making 50 or 60 Gs a year. And yes I've seen the comfortable Blacks move up more often in the work place. It is what it is

I think its sadder that anyone looks at 50 - 60k as extravagant or living large.
Most of my peers and myself, all black make in that range at least.

As for making the best of your circumstances by all means do that, but don't settle where you are if you don't like it, invest in yourself and a marketable skill so you can demand more money because your skill is worth it.
 

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I think its sadder that anyone looks at 50 - 60k as extravagant or living large.
Most of my peers and myself, all black make in that range at least.

As for making the best of your circumstances by all means do that, but don't settle where you are if you don't like it, invest in yourself and a marketable skill so you can demand more money because your skill is worth it.

50K may not be extravagant but the average breh aint making that kind of money. What I was getting at is, the lower wage jobs with the c00nish co-workers - the co-worker c00n that has more of chance of moving up the ladder vs. everyone else making $10 - $12. That c00n who tap dances to the top could easily reach 50K. 50K at $10 - 12$ per hr is like David staring at Goliath. Meanwhile the dude making chump change has his respect and pride in tact but nothing to show for it. Going home broke.
 

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Man I dunno my experience is that there's no in between with black women in healthcare...either they're gonna c00n hard or they don't take no shyt off of nobody.

:wow:

RNs around here stay with that constant

:dame::comeon::martin::scust::usure::stopitslime::childplease:

Face


Man everytime some shyt go down they wanna tell me about the shyt.


I be like" sheeeeeeitt they ain't gonna fire you, who tryna work in this small ass town"

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50K may not be extravagant but the average breh aint making that kind of money. What I was getting at is, the lower wage jobs with the c00nish co-workers - the co-worker c00n that has more of chance of moving up the ladder vs. everyone else making $10 - $12. That c00n who tap dances to the top could easily reach 50K. 50K at $10 - 12$ per hr is like David staring at Goliath. Meanwhile the dude making chump change has his respect and pride in tact but nothing to show for it. Going home broke.
You aren't getting a good job unless you have a skill and connections.
You don't have to c00n to make connections, so to talk like its either be broke or in a low paying job or c00n it up is a false dilemma.
Be a professional, handle your business first and foremost to a high level and make the right connections with the right people, you'll be alright and you'll move up.
 

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You aren't getting a good job unless you have a skill and connections.
You don't have to c00n to make connections, so to talk like its either be broke or in a low paying job or c00n it up is a false dilemma.
Be a professional, handle your business first and foremost to a high level and make the right connections with the right people, you'll be alright and you'll move up.

I guess yall might say I acted like a c00n, but hell it is what it is.
I was at a contract with the state and a co-worker came up to me with they wassup brother and gave me dap.
I told him I'm cool with dapping, but my name is ________ and just call me that, because I don't call anyone brother or homie or anything like that.
We're still cool so maybe I was able to say it right and not come off as c00nin, that and I typically get on everyone so no one thinks I play favorites.
:ehh:

:jbhmm:
 

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I can't think of any over the top c00ning when I was in the army but it was c00n central. Don't be shocked at ex-military c00ns. Thats where they perfect their craft. I know plenty of brothas that were "the black guy" in their crew. Never hung with us, used white slang, went to the redneck bars, and wouldnt know the 1st thing to say to a black girl. In my unit, for a good year and a half I was the only married black dude that was married to a black woman. And my dude Will was the only 1 married to a white chick that just barely skated into the fukkable zone. My man Cope was married to a frog face white chick with no teeth. Literally none. Not several missing. NONE. Another dude was married to this skeletal white chick who was clearly anorexic and she seemed a lil slow. But as long as u white, u were alright with him. This mufukka got out, divorced her, and traded her in for a Precious level fat white chick. :snoop:
 
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c00n behavior is calling a nikka brother like you have some kind of fukking bond just because you're black. A black person will be the first one to stick that knife in your back because you'll never see it coming. I speak from experience.

Besides that it's just corny. Just be yourself and talk to me nikka I don't need that extrashyt.
 
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