I have a few fraternity brothers that are gay. Honestly, they have been the most dedicated to the work of the fraternity. Stepping up in leadership roles, always willing to volunteer, always showing up to meetings, and financial. They are all good people. I hang with them occasionally, we just run in separate social circles.
And I participate on a couple of rec leagues and have a couple of gay jewish teammates. They go hard and have a lot of heart. None of them are flamboyant but all of them have intense type A personalities. Not any gay people at my job surprisingly. Them white finance guys are homophobic af. If there are any they’re on the downlow.