Could you ever have a gay friend?

Trot LaRoc

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I've had gay co-workers that were cool peoples and not super swishy with they gayness. They were ok to hang with the rest of the squad when we went out as they never were on that super flamboyant shyt and never tried anyone.

I could never be really close friends with a gay dude but i've def had a couple friends/acquiantances who were gay. I'm not that freaked out by folks being gay. As long as you cool and not super fakkity wit it, what you do in your personal life is your business:manny:

Part of it is for me is that a close cousin of mine is gay and we known he was gay since like middle school and it wasn't made to be a big deal in my family even tho our fam is somewhat conservative
 

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We have a friend we suspect is in the closet. Never had a girlfriend despite mad bytches tryna get with him. He gets touchy feely when he's drunk only with guys. We always call him a fakkit :yeshrug: and make gay jokes about him. Maybe that's why he doesn't come party as much with us :ohhh::dame:
 

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Could you?
this was a some what relevant question you could ask in the 90's or 80's. But today? come on now.

The truth is, you probably already have a gay/lesbian friend. You just dont know its official. if it aint a friend, its a family member. Truth is, yes you can. because certain people vibe with certain people. people have chemistry with one another. now of course that doesnt mean either of you want to sit around talking about relationships. but aside from that, yall could easily be friends on every other front if that front bothered you.
 

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Yes.

We've been friends since grade school.

Majority of them are married or currently engaged.
 

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In my experience my lesbian friends be the sloppy ones tryna hook up with their straight friends and causin drama :mjlol:

The gay homies be discreet as hell, walkin straight past they old work with the :dame: face :russ:

Also have access to the best drugs and dopest parties, and have alot of sexy girls as friends to alley-oop to me


Also, watching how nikkas game other nikkas might be the funniest shyt to see ever, shyt is like 3d chinese chess :krs:
 

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I have bisexual female friends, and have been friends with lesbians. Have had friendly work friendships with gay men, but as far as having a close friendship where I invite them to my home, no. I don’t want my son to think im okay with flamboyant behaviors and same sex relationships.
Stop lying I know you eat p*ssy
 

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:dame: It’s good that you are secure in your sexuality but going to gay clubs and hearing about their sex with other men sounds suspect asf, no offense of course.
I have female friends and we're open in our conversations and have talked about sex before to. To me it's no different than that. As far as gay clubs I've been and been hit on just politely tell them I don't roll like that and outside of one occasion have had no problems with that. Also I've probably had more success with women at gay clubs than straight clubs. Women aren't as guarded there. Just being around or hearing about gay shyt won't make a straight man gay.

Plus I'm the type that likes to hear from all perspective viewpoints so I have open conversations with everybody I know.
 

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:dame: It’s good that you are secure in your sexuality but going to gay clubs and hearing about their sex with other men sounds suspect asf, no offense of course.
:mjlol:I feel some people take acceptance to a whole new level. I try to treat gay people with respect. But i feel like some of these dude are just being low key down low but don't want to admit it.
 

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I've been friends with a couple. Their sexuality was never a big deal to me. I ain't gonna mistreat nobody over something like that. Plus, they were people I grew up with since elementary school. So our friendship was already set based off being into the same video games, anime, and stuff like that. Although most of the people's I'm talking about are women. It was a lotta lesbians at my high school:patrice:now that I think about it.
 
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