Could you ever have a gay friend?

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I got a gay friend that grew up with us. Cool as fukk and not on the rainbow tip. No one really knew he was gay growing up but he just never ever had any girls ever. Haven't talked to him in a long minute but he was always cool people.

Pretty sure I got a gay cousin too. Once again cool but like before no hoes around ever. I let gay people cook :manny:
 

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I have female friends and we're open in our conversations and have talked about sex before to. To me it's no different than that. As far as gay clubs I've been and been hit on just politely tell them I don't roll like that and outside of one occasion have had no problems with that. Also I've probably had more success with women at gay clubs than straight clubs. Women aren't as guarded there. Just being around or hearing about gay shyt won't make a straight man gay.

Plus I'm the type that likes to hear from all perspective viewpoints so I have open conversations with everybody I know.
:jbhmm: like they bi?
 

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I have been real close with two gay men. One was my roommate who came out after we had lived together for a year. Dude was super sweet and I caught all kinds of hell for it but we'd been friends for a few years at that point. I wouldn't disassociate myself from somebody that's been there for me because of the judgments of others. Another was dude I was friends with for years. No one could've guess dude was gay. The first friend is the one that gave me the heads up on the second guy. I could give a fukk about who my friends are fukking. I told them if they ever come on to me then friendship is over. Both have talked about their sex life with me.

shyt I've been to gay clubs with them. I'm secure in my sexuality. My thought was that they've bone to plenty of straight clubs with me so I could bite the bullet and go with them a few times.

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:jbhmm: like they bi?
Nah, plenty of women go to gay clubs where they can go and dance with their girls or to dance with the gay guys just to dance. They know going to a straight club and going to try and dance they got to deal with thirsty ass dudes trying to grind on them or feel on them. Going to the gay club removes a lot of that.
 

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shyt I've been to gay clubs with them. I'm secure in my sexuality. My thought was that they've bone to plenty of straight clubs with me so I could bite the bullet and go with them a few times.

that was one and only thing i drew the line on with my former best friend...this was my college/late teens/early 20s years..i wanted to be where the p*ssy was if i was clubbin/partying....funny thing is before he came out and after he came out we had never went to the clubs together at any time...so he couldn't pull "well shyt nikka i go to the straight clubs with you" deal lol..i think we've only been to parties where we both had a common friend...thats it..plus the clubs he hit up were one of many in the area that a had an active nightlife...god forbid someone saw me in one...that wasn't something i wanted to deal with
 

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currently i have several gay coworkers where i work...they have all been cool as fukk...one particularly on my team im super cool with cuz she helped me alot when i started at the company and we are friendly towards each other

i have a gay friend from my last job that i was close to...i love her to death..she and her wife are super tight with me and my lady..i miss working with her
 
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