Curious, do you have this much trouble asking a girl out on a date?

[Chesirecatdaddy]

You just really have to not give a fukk about shyt and let them feel like u just don't give a fukk... everything from there is smooth sailing.

The bytches aint super humorous, clever, or none of that shyt. They're even more scared of rejection than you are.

 

[Fatboi1]

That's how I feel before I pm @innocentdevil .

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[MAKAVELI25]

You just really have to not give a fukk about shyt and let them feel like u just don't give a fukk... everything from there is smooth sailing.

The bytches aint super humorous, clever, or none of that shyt. They're even more scared of rejection than you are.

Agreed, but easier said than done. Sometimes I'm in my zone but sometimes I'm anxious than a muh fukka

 

[blackzeus]

nikkaz act like it's THAT easy to ask out a female though. Even as a dude who has been with a decent amount of woman, it's not quite as easy as the coli pimps are making it seem. Especially when it's always on the dude to ask even if the female is feeling him too

The more you do it, the easier it gets. It should come off natural. Asking a girl out should be in the course of natural dialogue/chemistry. If you just go up to random women with no conversation and ask 'em out, then yeah, it's hard. But if you're talking to a chick, and you're getting good vibes, it should be easy YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO ASK THE FEMALE IF SHE'S FEELING YOU! You should already know that from the body language. I think a lot of these dudes need to go back to step one. Forget asking out, learn how to have a f*cking conversation. Half the game is chatting 'em up to get them loose. Once you've practiced striking up a conversation with like 30-50 girls, then start trying to hit on 'em, you're going to notice a huge difference in your rate of success. That'll be 2 g's, you don't pay nikka I'm comin' for all your keys

 

[dtownreppin214]

the easy fix to this is to look down on all women.

 

[ReggieFlare]

I use to be like this and it mostly stemmed form lack of confidence. Now I'd say I may be confident to a fault

Eventually I realized a few things:

1. Not every chick is going to want you. Once you understand this, you'll realize rejection is just part of the game, which should reduce your aversion to it
2. Don't be intimidated by her looks. In fact, let your emotions and opinion of her be dictated by her character...it takes the pressure of trying to "pull" a chick away
3. In most scenarios you really have nothing to lose. Sure, it might suck for about 5 minutes but by the end of the day the rejection is likely to be an afterthought
4. Think about what she brings to the table, not the other way around...once again, that should relieve some pressure