Curious, do you have this much trouble asking a girl out on a date?

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That's because men don't know how to take no for an answer especially if the girl is being nice about. I smile when I reject men especially if they approach me nicely but y'all fools become more persistent after that.

To be fair tho, there's a lot of confusion with this sort of sht. You got this "playing hard to get....see if you're persistent and you really want it" mentality thats hanging out there, which makes correctly analyzing true interest with females virtually impossible. Does no mean yes...does no mean no...does yes mean no...lol, wtf.
 

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Do it like the movies. Show up to her house/apartment/dorm etc. announced and say "We're going out for dinner right now, get dressed". If she's feeling you then she will do it, if not then :ufdup:

She might say "But I have class in the morning" or some shyt then you hit her with "It's aight, we'll get it to go, have dinner here or at my place. It'll only be about an hour" :youngsabo:
 

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Bruh...this shyt was cringe-worthy. :huhldup:

This is what happens as a result of overuse of social media. Dudes can barely form a sentence and sound confident when trying to ask a girl out. These look like college dudes, like me, and it's a damn shame that they sound like I did when I was in 8th grade talking to girls. More bytches for me I guess :yeshrug:

shyt really isn't that hard if you don't fear rejection. Hit the chick up, say what's up and ask how she's been doing lately, if she says something interesting follow up on that and progress the conversation, crack a joke if the opportunity arises, tell her "look, I really wanted to hit up restaurant a/movie b/event c on Friday, you should come with me....that way you're framing it as some shyt you were going to do regardless even if she's not coming...and it keeps her at ease because you're not coming at her weirdly with "will you go on a date with me?"

She says yes/no. If she says she's busy tell her you'd be down to go on Tuesday/Saturday/whatever, if she keeps bullshyttin' keep it moving. If she says no laugh it off and say it's cool you'll take someone else & keep it movin', if she says yeah tell her you'll pick her up @ whatever time and say you're looking forward to it. If it's a chick you're about to take to some expensive, romantic shyt with aspirations of smashing after, tell her to wear something sexy so you set the mood off top before the shyt even goes down. You can't say it like a bytch tho, you have to be confident and sorta nonchalant about the whole thing...even if you're tryna get with her really bad.

Like I said, it's not hard....but my generation is socially retarded for the most part.
 

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To be fair tho, there's a lot of confusion with this sort of sht. You got this "playing hard to get....see if you're persistent and you really want it" mentality thats hanging out there, which makes correctly analyzing true interest with females virtually impossible. Does no mean yes...does no mean no...does yes mean no...lol, wtf.

That's true and there have been instances where a guy has been persistent enough to point that I end up giving him my number. But that was when I was younger. Now it's like I try to be nice but guys be trying my patience, lol.
 

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Bruh...this shyt was cringe-worthy. :huhldup:

This is what happens as a result of overuse of social media. Dudes can barely form a sentence and sound confident when trying to ask a girl out. These look like college dudes, like me, and it's a damn shame that they sound like I did when I was in 8th grade talking to girls. More bytches for me I guess :yeshrug:

shyt really isn't that hard if you don't fear rejection. Hit the chick up, say what's up and ask how she's been doing lately, if she says something interesting follow up on that and progress the conversation, crack a joke if the opportunity arises, tell her "look, I really wanted to hit up restaurant a/movie b/event c on Friday, you should come with me....that way you're framing it as some shyt you were going to do regardless even if she's not coming...and it keeps her at ease because you're not coming at her weirdly with "will you go on a date with me?"

She says yes/no. If she says she's busy tell her you'd be down to go on Tuesday/Saturday/whatever, if she keeps bullshyttin' keep it moving. If she says no laugh it off and say it's cool you'll take someone else & keep it movin', if she says yeah tell her you'll pick her up @ whatever time and say you're looking forward to it. If it's a chick you're about to take to some expensive, romantic shyt with aspirations of smashing after, tell her to wear something sexy so you set the mood off top before the shyt even goes down. You can't say it like a bytch tho, you have to be confident and sorta nonchalant about the whole thing...even if you're tryna get with her really bad.

Like I said, it's not hard....but my generation is socially retarded for the most part.

Everything you said is pretty much gospel breh.
 

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Being timid usually gets you nowhere. Just say what you want and get it over with. In my experience women hate timid men and are more likely to shut them down. As long as you're respectful and confident with your approach then she will more than likely be nice if she says no. If you do get rejected then shrug it off and keep it moving. Rejection can hurt the ego but that's a part of life:yeshrug:
 

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Curious, do you have this much trouble asking a girl out on a date?

lol. nah, not at all. :mjlol:

the video made me embarrassed for the dude's cause the way they were acting, but when the girl's actually said yes. I made the :obama:face.

confidence is key, but these dude's also need to know how to control a relationship once the females let em' in.

cause if you shy like a sheep just in asking a bytch out on a date, I don't see you being the "man" in the relationship if it turns in to something more.
 

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Bruh...this shyt was cringe-worthy. :huhldup:

This is what happens as a result of overuse of social media. Dudes can barely form a sentence and sound confident when trying to ask a girl out. These look like college dudes, like me, and it's a damn shame that they sound like I did when I was in 8th grade talking to girls. More bytches for me I guess :yeshrug:

shyt really isn't that hard if you don't fear rejection. Hit the chick up, say what's up and ask how she's been doing lately, if she says something interesting follow up on that and progress the conversation, crack a joke if the opportunity arises, tell her "look, I really wanted to hit up restaurant a/movie b/event c on Friday, you should come with me....that way you're framing it as some shyt you were going to do regardless even if she's not coming...and it keeps her at ease because you're not coming at her weirdly with "will you go on a date with me?"

She says yes/no. If she says she's busy tell her you'd be down to go on Tuesday/Saturday/whatever, if she keeps bullshyttin' keep it moving. If she says no laugh it off and say it's cool you'll take someone else & keep it movin', if she says yeah tell her you'll pick her up @ whatever time and say you're looking forward to it. If it's a chick you're about to take to some expensive, romantic shyt with aspirations of smashing after, tell her to wear something sexy so you set the mood off top before the shyt even goes down. You can't say it like a bytch tho, you have to be confident and sorta nonchalant about the whole thing...even if you're tryna get with her really bad.

Like I said, it's not hard....but my generation is socially retarded for the most part.

LOL @ feelings of requited love, and having a fear of rejection being products of the "social media" age....What you think hundreds of years of poetry, literature, and all the songs about rejection and heartbreak have been about? Nobody wants to be embarrassed or rejected --- thats the human experience. Some people handle it better than others. Natural human emotions were not invented in 2008, lol

If anything, social media might help since boys have more consistent contact with girls....besides, I didnt think there was anything really wrong with the cats in the video. Some were a lil nervous. So what? Not eybody iceberg slim.
 

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Its not hard, but its not easy either.. they still have to have an interest in you, and sometimes you have to build that interest up unless they automatically want to fukk with you. Some guys don't even make it that small step because they are scared of rejection still. Get rid of that fear and things do get easier but not "i pull a hundred thousand trillion bytches" easy.
 

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LOL @ feelings of requited love, and having a fear of rejection being products of the "social media" age....What you think hundreds of years of poetry, literature, and all the songs about rejection and heartbreak have been about? Nobody wants to be embarrassed or rejected --- thats the human experience. Some people handle it better than others. Natural human emotions were not invented in 2008, lol

If anything, social media might help since boys have more consistent contact with girls....besides, I didnt think there was anything really wrong with the cats in the video. Some were a lil nervous. So what? Not eybody iceberg slim.
Its not hard, but its not easy either.. they still have to have an interest in you, and sometimes you have to build that interest up unless they automatically want to fukk with you. Some guys don't even make it that small step because they are scared of rejection still. Get rid of that fear and things do get easier but not "i pull a hundred thousand trillion bytches" easy.

Exactly, and it has nothing to do with experience. I lost my virginity before I hit high school but I still get that same queasy feeling when I'm going to ask a girl out. :yeshrug:
 
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