Damson Idris addresses the hate he’s seen from Black men toward Black women. Grow Up!

[Peter Popoff]

This reaks of pandering and trying to please your fan base

And your breath reaks of Lebron James dıck juices. Negged.

 

[Canon]

yeah how dare you guys!

only black women can run there mouths without consequence

 

[Unbothered]

He's right; how could you consider yourself a proud Black man who supposedly cares about his people and community yet has disdain and animosity towards his other half, Black women?

I know some of y'all gonna say, well, what about Black women hating Black men, and I say to you that most Black women love Black men but are fed up and frustrated, and y'all misunderstand and mistake it as hate, but in reality, it's really just disappointment with the mentality and actions that plague a segment of the Black man today, not just in terms of romance but in other categories as well when it comes to being a man of the people.

Despite the ups and downs, the Black man's biggest supporter in this world is Black women and always have been. Most of them love us too, especially when we're on our purpose as men, but some of y'all mistake her understandable frustration and disappointment as hate when she really wants to see us all do better and be better and reach our maximum potential.

 

[Mugenight]

This p*ssy muthafukka knows exactly what he's doing.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Maybe he should stop lurking on TLR and Twitter

 

[Ohene]

So a man approaches, or is interested in a woman based on how she looks, and a desire for sex, yet she has no say in the appearance of the men she sleeps with? Relationships require kissing, and sex. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone they are not attracted to. They’re allowed to say no. A lot of women talk about feeling forced or shamed into dating men they aren’t attracted to, then years down the line, they don’t want to touch you anymore. You can be the nicest guy in the world, and have good qualities, but that won’t make you sexually desirable to every woman. You can’t force attraction.

Then, we know men lie, and tell women what they want to hear in order to get what we want. We can’t simply admit we only want sex, because most of the time, they won’t do it. That happens all the time. Short guys, ugly guys, average guys lie, cheat, and mistreat women just like attractive ones.

As far as broke men, they can’t afford to do activities, and women respect you less when they have to pay. They don’t want to sit around the house all day, and watch movies on TBS. And most broke men will want to use a woman’s credit for something, without being married. Men also string women along for years, claiming they want a future, but it never happens. So to take that risk for not even the bare minimum of mutual attraction seems stupid. Women have gotten to the point where they aren’t afraid of being alone anymore. So taking just any guy isn’t happening. They can make their own money, and easily get sex with someone they prefer. Even if the girl is ugly, she’s not taking just any ugly guy. You still have to be compatible, have good conversation, and treat her well. Women aren’t grateful for dikk, because they don’t have to be.

I’m not reading this

 

[cyndaquil]

So a man approaches, or is interested in a woman based on how she looks, and a desire for sex, yet she has no say in the appearance of the men she sleeps with? Relationships require kissing, and sex. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone they are not attracted to. They’re allowed to say no. A lot of women talk about feeling forced or shamed into dating men they aren’t attracted to, then years down the line, they don’t want to touch you anymore. You can be the nicest guy in the world, and have good qualities, but that won’t make you sexually desirable to every woman. You can’t force attraction.

Then, we know men lie, and tell women what they want to hear in order to get what we want. We can’t simply admit we only want sex, because most of the time, they won’t do it. That happens all the time. Short guys, ugly guys, average guys lie, cheat, and mistreat women just like attractive ones.

As far as broke men, they can’t afford to do activities, and women respect you less when they have to pay. They don’t want to sit around the house all day, and watch movies on TBS. And most broke men will want to use a woman’s credit for something, without being married. Men also string women along for years, claiming they want a future, but it never happens. So to take that risk for not even the bare minimum of mutual attraction seems stupid. Women have gotten to the point where they aren’t afraid of being alone anymore. So taking just any guy isn’t happening. They can make their own money, and easily get sex with someone they prefer. Even if the girl is ugly, she’s not taking just any ugly guy. You still have to be compatible, have good conversation, and treat her well. Women aren’t grateful for dikk, because they don’t have to be.

He's not saying force attraction. He's saying they are not considering men they may find somewhat attractive at all. It is absolutely an issue. Women are treating dating like a checklist. I keep hearing black women focus on how "fine" someone is. Which is not inherently bad in itself but it can't be your main and only criteria when dating. Especially since the primary driver of attraction to women is not just looks.
So many women from previous generations talk about how they met their husband and there was not a huge level of attraction and it grew over time as they got to know them.

 

[King Poetic]

Can he give examples instead of just throwing it out there

 

[cyndaquil]

I’m not reading this

I read it for you.
Here's the gist of it:
He's saying women are not giving men they dont find highly attractive a chance because all the men attractive or not lie to get sex and they will string women along. So they are instead opting into getting strung along by very attractive men to them rather than waste time with men they find less attractive and if they dont get those men they are ok being alone and they dont need a man for anything since they have their own money.

 

[Ohene]

I read it for you.
Here's the gist of it:
He's saying women are not giving men they dont find highly attractive a chance because all the men attractive or not lie to get sex and they will string women along. So they are instead opting into getting strung along by very attractive men to them rather than waste time with men they find less attractive and if they dont get those men they are ok being alone and they dont need a man for anything since they have their own money.

In other words he is absolving women of any wrongdoing as per usual and saying men are the problematic ones

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

He's not saying force attraction. He's saying they are not considering men they may find somewhat attractive at all. It is absolutely an issue. Women are treating dating like a checklist. I keep hearing black women focus on how "fine" someone is. Which is not inherently bad in itself but it can't be your main and only criteria when dating. Especially since the primary driver of attraction to women is not just looks.
So many women from previous generations talk about how they met their husband and there was not a huge level of attraction and it grew over time as they got to know them.

That’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about pure repulsion. There has to be a base level of attraction. And usually that’s not going to happen when you only date on apps. More men have better luck in person, because you look better in person, and she can catch a vibe based on something you say to her. Plenty of average men are happy in relationships. You don’t have to be Morris Chestnut to get a woman.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I’m not reading this

You know you read it.



Cliffs,

You can’t force yourself to be attracted to someone. You approach a woman because of the way she looks. If she rejects you based on your looks, you’re both shallow.

 

[Ohene]

You know you read it.



Cliffs,

You can’t force yourself to be attracted to someone. You approach a woman because of the way she looks. If she rejects you based on your looks, you’re both shallow.

I didnt lol

I agree with the cliffs

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

diddy trial got him feeling a way his old girl already got brought up

 

[Hov]

Who cares about “who started it”

If you a man be a man

We supposed to be leaders right? What kinda sucka ass leader sit around and complain about who their supposed to be leading instead of teaching & helping them be better?

If you’re favorite coach said “b-b-but the team won’t listen to me” you would say fire that loser

Black men and black women are at odds right now on this thing we call social media and offline but in reality either men gotta step up as a group or we all die, ain’t no in between