Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

[CityGuy]

I've never settled in my life. Idunno why anyone would do that in any aspect of their life. Having realistic expectations isn't settling.

The nice guy tag is a good thing. Being nice is a good thing. It attracts nice people.

I have the scum bag not to be trusted tag. I'm misunderstood though. I pull all day though because I know I can change her life. She cannot change mine.

I let them play their head games but she means little to me and I make that clear.

Nice girls are a rarity man. If you find one you vibe with lock it down. Most girls are snakes and they're highly manipulative. Good thing is all those girls meet a guy who will do them as dirty as they've done some nice guy.

 

[Weaver31]

Women out here slipping... a real master manipulator would have told you of course.

That surprised me a lot. I credit her for being real and honest but most people especially women are manipulative as fuk. This was a good wake up call for OP and he made right decision and handled it well. This is a good wake up call for us guys who are "too nice."

It makes me think that some parents who raised up nice guys were out of touch with the younger generation and how young females especially black females desire men who are either bad boys, rough, athletic, thugs, alpha men, etc. Women in general especially younger black women just don't value nice guys. It's upsetting because we have to either change our mentality or behavior to get a women we desire or settle and date a woman who is ran thru, too obese, unattractive, or just basic as fuk.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

If all her ex boyfriends look like this

But you look like this

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Unless you are some type of celebrity or the coli famous "Tupac in a business suit," a woman will always believe she settled for you. She's the best thing that happened to you

Cant be from the coast

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Ducktales

 

[cac poster]

LMAO


L

 

[Diyhai]

Ducktales

who dat in the avi

 

[SheWantTheD]

That surprised me a lot. I credit her for being real and honest but most people especially women are manipulative as fuk. This was a good wake up call for OP and he made right decision and handled it well. This is a good wake up call for us guys who are "too nice."

It makes me think that some parents who raised up nice guys were out of touch with the younger generation and how young females especially black females desire men who are either bad boys, rough, athletic, thugs, alpha men, etc. Women in general especially younger black women just don't value nice guys. It's upsetting because we have to either change our mentality or behavior to get a women we desire or settle and date a woman who is ran thru, too obese, unattractive, or just basic as fuk.

It all comes down to having a level of self respect and self value for yourself. Not accepting bullshyt and thoroughly investigating any women you plan on committing to for a long time

 

[Ol’Otis]

Fixed

accurate

her baby daddies are lean/zanny heads

not some buff ass 6'5 thug n*gga

 

[Killigraphy]

yall just like the women yall complaining about
chasing women that arent what u want and then being mad they are who they are
U should really be asking urself what attracts u to a woman that acts like that

All woman are the same, I learned that very early in my life, so I don't complain about them, I learn to manipulate my way into their beds not their therapist's chair.

 

[Diyhai]

All woman are the same, I learned that very early in my life, so I don't complain about them, I learn to manipulate my way into their beds not their therapist's chair.

u sound silly
there are types but women are far from all the same
u probably need to look at urself and ur dating patterns
u can be choosing the same type of woman or only able to attract a certain type of woman

 

[Rekkapryde]

She told me we would be good friends

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos

Yall nikkaz gotta have a shyt on single mom topic generator. I'm convinced!!!!

 

[Rekkapryde]

I hit for 2 years, she tried to force me to marry her but nahhhh, had to bounce when she ethered me with that line

at least she told you in advance. she actually saved you from the L.

#GMB

 

[4North1Side2]

That surprised me a lot. I credit her for being real and honest but most people especially women are manipulative as fuk. This was a good wake up call for OP and he made right decision and handled it well. This is a good wake up call for us guys who are "too nice."

It makes me think that some parents who raised up nice guys were out of touch with the younger generation and how young females especially black females desire men who are either bad boys, rough, athletic, thugs, alpha men, etc. Women in general especially younger black women just don't value nice guys. It's upsetting because we have to either change our mentality or behavior to get a women we desire or settle and date a woman who is ran thru, too obese, unattractive, or just basic as fuk.

It's not because you are nice, it's because you are swagless.

 

[Rekkapryde]

It's not because you are nice, it's because you are swagless.

And those same birds who overvalue "swag" end up being the same single mothers nikkaz shyt on everyday in this forum