Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

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And I don't even mean it in a malicious "bytches ain't shyt" sort of way. The fact is, most people ain't gonna be for you, so you can't let a pretty smile
and a few words have you roped in. Don't be an a$$hole, but don't be open to any and everything these ladies think and want if it isn't in your character.

My problem used to be when I liked a chick, everything else stopped mattering as much. That was my issue. I lost bread and opportunities over chicks, even
bushing better suited chicks over the ones I wanted that weren't acting right towards me...if I knew what I know now, I would have just gotten my money
and let that shyt speak for me.

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I feel u, but she wasn't giving bro no play at first now she all on his dikk.. fukk that bytch.

Like other homie said , she still playing she just losing lol
Now if he let the pendulum swing back in her direction she gonna be on the same dumb, half way receptive bullshyt .. tryna string the bro along becuz she get a kick out of feeling in control of the relationship.. fukk that

"Better them than me.." -hov
he was the one pressing her so now when she finally show love
he switch up :comeon:
Chicks look for consistence
be who you are regardless of the circumstance
him playing games speaks to his character
how u react to a situation shouldn't be based on how you are treated
u should react based on who you say you are
if ur playing games u childish plain and simple
doesn't matter who started it if u participate you just as guilty
 

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he was the one pressing her so now when she finally show love
he switch up :comeon:
Chicks look for consistence
be who you are regardless of the circumstance
him playing games speaks to his character
how u react to a situation shouldn't be based on how you are treated
u should react based on who you say you are
if ur playing games u childish plain and simple
doesn't matter who started it if u participate you just as guilty
Like I said I feel u,,

It's best to overstand the bs and the games and not even deal with the childish bish once u spot her for what she is..

But if you decide u still want to fukk.. well make sure u got the upper hand and don't take that bish seriously. It don't mean he change who he was .. it just mean he realized the proper distance to keep THIS chick at

And she not showing love bruh.. she just want what she can't have. I
 

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Like I said I feel u,,

It's best to overstand the bs and the games and not even deal with the childish bish once u spot her for what she is..

But if you decide u still want to fukk.. well make sure u got the upper hand and don't take that bish seriously. It don't mean he change who he was .. it just mean he realized the proper distance to keep THIS chick at

And she not showing love bruh.. she just want what she can't have. I
even if he just wanna to hit
should have just answered her text :smh: yall gonna learn
same nygga gonna be emotional when the next man fukk:mjlol:
 

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She told me we would be good friends:francis:

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos:lolbron:


You handled that well:francis:



Didn't get your feelings hurt and start calling herwack ass names :hhh: you stuck it out and freaked off on her then bounced:jawalrus:


8/10 FAM :obama:


Lose 2 points for even dealing with a bird like that :sitdown:
 

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looking square aint an issue as long as u are confident, have game and garner respect

u cant be worried about who a chic dated in the past. you have to focus on what you got going on and making that bond btwn y'all stronger. if u do it right u gon end up being her ideal and she gon look on her past nikkas with disgust

u gotta show her what she supposed to like and how she supposed to be treated. you come up with a new "normal" for her. you become the standard. but a lot of nikkas is too insecure to see the game like this or just too dumb to present it like this. relationships is serious shyt. you gotta inculcate your woman with the correct programming
:patrice:
Not gonna lie, this shyt got a nikka thinking. An OG spit something like this to me before but I looked at it as some simp shyt but now being older and in a similar situation this sound like some solid advice.....as long as you play it smart
 
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:hubie:Always said, if you get a sense that her old boyfriends look like the entire Cobra from GI Joe

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And you out here looking like Winston Zeddemore

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:ufdup:Toss that fish back in the sea. She better make it work with the guys she used to go for. She had her chance. Shoulda been Bustin' ghosts but she chose to bust it open:ufdup:
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I asked one of my very good female friends how come we never hooked up. Other friends have told me she likes me. She told told me because I'm too good of a guy for her. She still my dawg to this day for keeping it real:wow:
 

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I asked one of my very good female friends how come we never hooked up. Other friends have told me she likes me. She told told me because I'm too good of a guy for her. She still my dawg to this day for keeping it real:wow:

She lied to you breh.

It's not that you're too good for her, but it doesn't jump for you. She's keeping you at a safe distance because she can. If that want was there, she'd be up under you. The can't help its are real.
 

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How do I shake off the "nice guy" tag breh. I wanna be "that nikka" they quick to spread their ass cheeks for.

You're probably just a nice person in general, so there's no changing that, because most times everything you do in the opposite direction will feel "forced". You just need how to be nice and aloof. Ignoring someone is the biggest offense to their character. Psychologically, someone rather see something gruesome than to be ignored completely. People are weak and lonely (welcome to the human condition). Women are easy to manipulate in this sense. Focus more on being aloof, and less about getting p*ssy.

The best fishermen in the world, are the most patient. You can't just throw dynamite in the water and hope for the best. Don't change who you are, change how you respond.
 

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You're probably just a nice person in general, so there's no changing that, because most times everything you do in the opposite direction will feel "forced". You just need how to be nice and aloof. Ignoring someone is the biggest offense to their character. Psychologically, someone rather see something gruesome than to be ignored completely. People are weak and lonely (welcome to the human condition). Women are easy to manipulate in this sense. Focus more on being aloof, and less about getting p*ssy.

The best fishermen in the world, are the most patient. You can't just throw dynamite in the water and hope for the best. Don't change who you are, change how you respond.
:smh: yall just like the women yall complaining about
chasing women that arent what u want and then being mad they are who they are
U should really be asking urself what attracts u to a woman that acts like that :jbhmm:
 

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I'll never settle for a bytch that ain't a 10 FUCC I look like that's why I'm getting my bread now
:yeshrug:... Don't believe the hype, you're never going to be someone's FIRST choice. People in relationships usually have settled and the ones that didn't, die lonely.

And op might wanna change your name from playa to something that better fits you
 
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