Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

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If all her ex boyfriends look like this

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But you look like this

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:ufdup:
And social media makes this shyt so easy to research. IG basically snitches on ain't shyt hoes.
 

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And I don't even mean it in a malicious "bytches ain't shyt" sort of way. The fact is, most people ain't gonna be for you, so you can't let a pretty smile
and a few words have you roped in. Don't be an a$$hole, but don't be open to any and everything these ladies think and want if it isn't in your character.

My problem used to be when I liked a chick, everything else stopped mattering as much. That was my issue. I lost bread and opportunities over chicks, even
bushing better suited chicks over the ones I wanted that weren't acting right towards me...if I knew what I know now, I would have just gotten my money
and let that shyt speak for me.
:salute: agreed brehs... end of high school & some of college was like that for me.

theres 3 types of women you will meet:
1. will fukk you, no games (as long as you UP FRONT and TRUE to yourself, brehs)
2. might fukk, some games
3. no fukk, all games

most dudes spend too much time with 2 and 3 and become simps.

stop making it hard for yourselves, brehs.
 
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She told me we would be good friends:francis:

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos:lolbron:
How many kids with different fathers?
 

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Out here in my damn drawls
She told me we would be good friends:francis:

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos:lolbron:

One would think you were the desperate one without many options in that relationship.
What took you so long? Was she giving you a place to stay or something :picard:?
 

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She told me we would be good friends:francis:

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos:lolbron:

She's a single mom who settled for a Nice Simp and Your'e The Beta Nice Guy that was selected to raise her b*stard kid. Sounds like a Perfect Match!
 
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She could have asked you would you date her if you were 6'5" and worth millions.

Most people do not date their "ideal". She just kept it a buck about it.
True. But the fact she didn't even think to lie to bruh meant she gave NO fukks about Dude or his feelings and just straight up disrespected his ass like he wasn't gonna leave her ass, like she had him on lock to where she could just shyt on his whole life :scust:
 

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I've never settled in my life. Idunno why anyone would do that in any aspect of their life. Having realistic expectations isn't settling.

The nice guy tag is a good thing. Being nice is a good thing. It attracts nice people.

I have the scum bag not to be trusted tag. I'm misunderstood though. I pull all day though because I know I can change her life. She cannot change mine.

I let them play their head games but she means little to me and I make that clear.

Nice girls are a rarity man. If you find one you vibe with lock it down. Most girls are snakes and they're highly manipulative. Good thing is all those girls meet a guy who will do them as dirty as they've done some nice guy.
 

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Damn u tossed that assist high in the air and she caught that shyt and broke the backboard like shaq. Props to u for leaving but u took to long nikka. Shouldve went home that day and just threw the phone away


:mjcry:
I only waited that long because thats how long it took to get a replacement
 

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breh knows what he talmbout :blessed:

"Models" by Mark Manson is a required text for the brehs here that don't have a handle on bytches yet. don't be a sucka for the games.

Described it perfectly. The goal is to do what you want. It's not a$$hole behavior. It's decisive and assertiveness. Say what you want within reason and just be honest about your feelings.

People always try to put on a face or try to sculpt an image that is no 100% true to who they are. Women will not respect that if you're doing it to appease their every desire instead of being yourself.

Saying what's on your mind will go far with chicks even if they call you an a$$hole. But this is what keeps them around and wanting more. But again should be obvious this is in within reason. Don't up and call her a fat bytch or something. But don't be afraid of saying no or saying exactly what's on your mind either.

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Proud of you guys for giving a homie real advice :mjcry:

You'll be alright OP, If she said that to me, girl would have been downgraded to "call when im bored". Never to rise again :wow:
 

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I gotta do it lol . .I be seeing this so much on facebook . . .here is how it goes tho

she has no kids:
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call this mcm, he the bae, they gon take over he moving work she his down ass bih, she has a baby by this dude he stick around for about 3 months they tke some cute pics for the gram and all of a sudden her status say "fukk boi"
she has 1 kid:
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alright the dread head stage is over he a fukk nikka now and shes moved on. . she still want that hood dude but he gotta be a little more mature . . thats were twan come in he fresh out the pen but he more calm than quan but will still bust a nikka head . . he good with the kids but he got some rowdy baby mamas and she ends up butting heads with them this ends that relationship
she has 2 kids:
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this is hotep brotha septum, he seems deep to her he reads the scriptures and believes a higher power will come and punish the white devil, he speaks about nurturing her body in honey and butter and about how he has a plan to come up the reality is he stays in his moms spot and he can't use the honey or butter because he didn't buy it. . . eventually she catches on to all his fake conscious bullshyt and takes her kids and departs.

she has 3 kids:
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This here is Donovan he went to the same high school, "lost" his virginity at 17 when the girl of his dreams dry humped him at the club . . really never heard of him in the streets and you always kind of thought of him as lame . . he might have asked you out to prom or some shyt but you wasn't bout to fukk with a lame . . now though you've changed and he seems alright . . he went to university for biochem engineering and some company plans to move him out he asked you to come with him and said he'd accept all the kids . .you accepted the offer and eventually ya'll even got married . . a few years later though you've gotten bored he isn't a terrible person but you often catch yourself going to quans Facebook and wondering what could have been . . you decide to hit up quan one day just out of curiosity because you've grown you'd never take somebody like him serious :troll:

Quan eventually remarks on how gushy it use to get when ya'll smashed back in the day . .one thing leads to another and you and quan meet up at his place . . you end up smashing and midway through you hear somebody at the door . . a lady in 5 kids walks in . . she starts yelling "MOTHAfukkA HOW DARE YOU BRING THIS bytch IN MY SPOT . . NAH fukk THIS YALL DYING TONIGHT" she comes at you and you react quickly throwing one of your Sergio Rossi heels at her . .you run out the door and immediately call your husband and ask him to book you uber and flight right away . . .

okay ima stop this got to long . . .:francis:
 
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