Dated a single mother once, I asked her "if she didnt have kids would she still date me"

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

And I don't even mean it in a malicious "bytches ain't shyt" sort of way. The fact is, most people ain't gonna be for you, so you can't let a pretty smile
and a few words have you roped in. Don't be an a$$hole, but don't be open to any and everything these ladies think and want if it isn't in your character.

My problem used to be when I liked a chick, everything else stopped mattering as much. That was my issue. I lost bread and opportunities over chicks, even
bushing better suited chicks over the ones I wanted that weren't acting right towards me...if I knew what I know now, I would have just gotten my money
and let that shyt speak for me.

 

[How Sway?]

.
I gotta do it lol . .I be seeing this so much on facebook . . .here is how it goes tho

she has no kids:

call this mcm, he the bae, they gon take over he moving work she his down ass bih, she has a baby by this dude he stick around for about 3 months they tke some cute pics for the gram and all of a sudden her status say "fukk boi"
she has 1 kid:

alright the dread head stage is over he a fukk nikka now and shes moved on. . she still want that hood dude but he gotta be a little more mature . . thats were twan come in he fresh out the pen but he more calm than quan but will still bust a nikka head . . he good with the kids but he got some rowdy baby mamas and she ends up butting heads with them this ends that relationship
she has 2 kids:

this is hotep brotha septum, he seems deep to her he reads the scriptures and believes a higher power will come and punish the white devil, he speaks about nurturing her body in honey and butter and about how he has a plan to come up the reality is he stays in his moms spot and he can't use the honey or butter because he didn't buy it. . . eventually she catches on to all his fake conscious bullshyt and takes her kids and departs.

she has 3 kids:

This here is Donovan he went to the same high school, "lost" his virginity at 17 when the girl of his dreams dry humped him at the club . . really never heard of him in the streets and you always kind of thought of him as lame . . he might have asked you out to prom or some shyt but you wasn't bout to fukk with a lame . . now though you've changed and he seems alright . . he went to university for biochem engineering and some company plans to move him out he asked you to come with him and said he'd accept all the kids . .you accepted the offer and eventually ya'll even got married . . a few years later though you've gotten bored he isn't a terrible person but you often catch yourself going to quans Facebook and wondering what could have been . . you decide to hit up quan one day just out of curiosity because you've grown you'd never take somebody like him serious

Quan eventually remarks on how gushy it use to get when ya'll smashed back in the day . .one thing leads to another and you and quan meet up at his place . . you end up smashing and midway through you hear somebody at the door . . a lady in 5 kids walks in . . she starts yelling "MOTHAfukkA HOW DARE YOU BRING THIS bytch IN MY SPOT . . NAH fukk THIS YALL DYING TONIGHT" she comes at you and you react quickly throwing one of your Sergio Rossi heels at her . .you run out the door and immediately call your husband and ask him to book you uber and flight right away . . .

okay ima stop this got to long . . .

too accurate

 

[Woman of god]

Unless you are some type of celebrity or the coli famous "Tupac in a business suit," a woman will always believe she settled for you. She's the best thing that happened to you

 

[Makavalli]

I only waited that long because thats how long it took to get a replacement

Fukk that shyt bruh next time u bounce asap before u make a simp baby nikka

 

[skokiaan]

Hotep brother septum

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

This is lowkey one of my fears I'll be involved with someone who felt they settled and are so selfish that they would rope me along break my heart now not later, with time wounds can heal but if you let me get old you've stolen my time and broke my heart.

that's why you gotta stalk the women you love to see what type of shyt they be on when she thinks no one is looking.



f'real though...stalk your main. these hoes are cold blooded reptiles.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

How do I shake off the "nice guy" tag breh. I wanna be "that nikka" they quick to spread their ass cheeks for.

lmao.

1st. stop giving a fuk about their feelings.

2. take ALL pxssy off the pedestal...they're fallible humans, ain't no tellin how wide that pxssy is until you hit.

3. smoke a lil refer now and again. it helps with perspective. also, it helps you not give a fuk so much.

 

[ⒶⓁⒾⒶⓈ]

.
I gotta do it lol . .I be seeing this so much on facebook . . .here is how it goes tho

she has no kids:

call this mcm, he the bae, they gon take over he moving work she his down ass bih, she has a baby by this dude he stick around for about 3 months they tke some cute pics for the gram and all of a sudden her status say "fukk boi"
she has 1 kid:

alright the dread head stage is over he a fukk nikka now and shes moved on. . she still want that hood dude but he gotta be a little more mature . . thats were twan come in he fresh out the pen but he more calm than quan but will still bust a nikka head . . he good with the kids but he got some rowdy baby mamas and she ends up butting heads with them this ends that relationship
she has 2 kids:

this is hotep brotha septum, he seems deep to her he reads the scriptures and believes a higher power will come and punish the white devil, he speaks about nurturing her body in honey and butter and about how he has a plan to come up the reality is he stays in his moms spot and he can't use the honey or butter because he didn't buy it. . . eventually she catches on to all his fake conscious bullshyt and takes her kids and departs.

she has 3 kids:

This here is Donovan he went to the same high school, "lost" his virginity at 17 when the girl of his dreams dry humped him at the club . . really never heard of him in the streets and you always kind of thought of him as lame . . he might have asked you out to prom or some shyt but you wasn't bout to fukk with a lame . . now though you've changed and he seems alright . . he went to university for biochem engineering and some company plans to move him out he asked you to come with him and said he'd accept all the kids . .you accepted the offer and eventually ya'll even got married . . a few years later though you've gotten bored he isn't a terrible person but you often catch yourself going to quans Facebook and wondering what could have been . . you decide to hit up quan one day just out of curiosity because you've grown you'd never take somebody like him serious

Quan eventually remarks on how gushy it use to get when ya'll smashed back in the day . .one thing leads to another and you and quan meet up at his place . . you end up smashing and midway through you hear somebody at the door . . a lady in 5 kids walks in . . she starts yelling "MOTHAfukkA HOW DARE YOU BRING THIS bytch IN MY SPOT . . NAH fukk THIS YALL DYING TONIGHT" she comes at you and you react quickly throwing one of your Sergio Rossi heels at her . .you run out the door and immediately call your husband and ask him to book you uber and flight right away . . .

okay ima stop this got to long . . .

100

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Only thing I learned, stop being so invested. Girls are like busses, and your boss doesn't mind how late you are. Grand gestures, persistence...bush all that
bullshyt. Say whats on your mind and don't give a fukk. If there are certain things lacking in your interactions, cut the cord. You don't have to be a scumbag, and you don't
have to radically change. Just do whatever it takes so you don't care that damn much. The less you care, the more you can get things done without letting feelings
cloud your judgment. Ladies are gonna say "Thats awful. Brothas ain't shyt." Then you realize, so many of them respond to that shyt, it is their fault

You don't shame the Wolf for eating when you were letting him starve as a pup. He learned by example. Have fun, do you, and don't invest in shyt but yourself. Eventually
a chick will come along that makes you want to change your ways up, but the fact is, most won't, so you win more by being whimsical than you do being all in they shyt.

100% truth.

it's because they know they ain't shyt. no moral code. so, when you teat them like what they are they don't feel obligated to act like angels and they bust it open.

 

[GreenGhxst]

lol that shyt was cold breh, you should've left her that same day

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

I quickly got rid of the last black girl that said that to me, she has a daughter. Maybe if I were persistent I could have hit it, but I'd rather smash an escort and that's what I did. She was also a neighbour and she propositioned me me to be fukk buddies, that went over my head because I had no interest in her.

She also told me she had a vaginal cyst. She somehow always found a way to unintentionally disgust me.

that ho was crazy

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

agreed brehs... end of high school & some of college was like that for me.

theres 3 types of women you will meet:
1. will fukk you, no games (as long as you UP FRONT and TRUE to yourself, brehs)
2. might fukk, some games
3. no fukk, all games

most dudes spend too much time with 2 and 3 and become simps.

stop making it hard for yourselves, brehs.

tinder has showed me the way.

 

[Paradise50]

She disrespectful as fukk


Hell I wouldn't have even stayed for those 2/3 months...bounced on the spot

 

[Just like bruddas]

She told me we would be good friends

2/3 months later I bounced & never looked back. It hurts to say she saw me as "Mr Nice guy" she would date after she been ran through

Needless to say I had her doing some freaky ish from the pornos

Y'all nikkas stay asking questions that don't need to be asked. You fukking, p*ssy good, cooking is good, you straight. Must be a pride thing I guess.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I've never settled in my life. Idunno why anyone would do that in any aspect of their life. Having realistic expectations isn't settling.

The nice guy tag is a good thing. Being nice is a good thing. It attracts nice people.

I have the scum bag not to be trusted tag. I'm misunderstood though. I pull all day though because I know I can change her life. She cannot change mine.

I let them play their head games but she means little to me and I make that clear.

Nice girls are a rarity man. If you find one you vibe with lock it down. Most girls are snakes and they're highly manipulative. Good thing is all those girls meet a guy who will do them as dirty as they've done some nice guy.

This is wrong. Being Nice attracts people who think you're a sucker & will use you and abuse you.