dating 101: curving

[CinnaSlim]

Someone explain this to me. I'm old school and I don't know the rules. When you have a bad first date or whatever. I thought it was understood if I don't hit you back, I'm no longer interested.

Apparently, I'm curving and playing people. What is proper etiquette on saying "I don't want you"?
No I need to give a reason why?

 

[Ricky Church]

I never understand this.
yes, it makes sense when someone ignores you, or is no longer interested in a person the level of communication is less frequent.

people just need to man up and be honest with their feelings.
what's so hard in saying "I'm not interested in you like that, don't call/text me anymore."

 

[Vado]

ignoring nikkas is corny

just say you not interested and move on

ignoring is some kid shyt. grow up and stop being shy when it comes to rejecting ppl

 

[swimmingpools]

I think you would be playing games only if youre still contacting them as if you want to continue anything with them, even though youre not interested. Yes you could contact them first and let them know that you're not feeling them but imo if someone hasnt hit me up after the first date, then it would be obvious they werent interested in me. If they contact you then you should tell them you're not interested.

 

[Dooby]

Someone explain this to me. I'm old school and I don't know the rules. When you have a bad first date or whatever. I thought it was understood if I don't hit you back, I'm no longer interested.

Apparently, I'm curving and playing people. What is proper etiquette on saying "I don't want you"?
No I need to give a reason, why?

Ricky Church pretty much nailed it...just up and tell the person you're not fukking interested you a$$hole.

 

[aXiom]

Someone explain this to me. I'm old school and I don't know the rules. When you have a bad first date or whatever. I thought it was understood if I don't hit you back, I'm no longer interested.

Apparently, I'm curving and playing people. What is proper etiquette on saying "I don't want you"?
No I need to give a reason, why?

Just tell the nikka to kick rocks, I don't see why you need to be polite about it. The important thing is getting the message across and knowing that it was recieved as intended. That's why you get a tracking number and a confirmation email.

 

[Dwolf]

Someone explain this to me. I'm old school and I don't know the rules. When you have a bad first date or whatever. I thought it was understood if I don't hit you back, I'm no longer interested.

Apparently, I'm curving and playing people. What is proper etiquette on saying "I don't want you"?
No I need to give a reason, why?

nikka,

 

[Remote]

ignoring nikkas is corny

just say you not interested and move on

ignoring is some kid shyt. grow up and stop being shy when it comes to rejecting ppl

But you ignored a boxing invite, breh

 

[Taadow]

I think you would be playing games only if youre still contacting them as if you want to continue anything with them, even though youre not interested. Yes you could contact them first and let them know that you're not feeling them but imo if someone hasnt hit me up after the first date, then it would be obvious they werent interested in me. If they contact you then you should tell them you're not interested.

This is the mature way to handle it...








...but just send 'em this, when they contact now.
Them, or they mama, they daddy, or they greasy granmammy.

 

[Vado]

But you ignored a boxing invite, breh

you acting like a lil kid right now

 

[Remote]

you acting like a lil kid right now

I'm just breakin your balls a little bit.

 

[Vado]

I think you would be playing games only if youre still contacting them as if you want to continue anything with them, even though youre not interested. Yes you could contact them first and let them know that you're not feeling them but imo if someone hasnt hit me up after the first date, then it would be obvious they werent interested in me. If they contact you then you should tell them you're not interested.

take this number down

 

[CinnaSlim]

I don't have a problem telling people. I was just wondering if I should hit em up first, if it was never anything serious. I was using the term "date" very loosely. I was under the impression, cutting that bytch off, was the right way to go about it.

Apparently, that causes a lot of hurt feelings.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

Just be nice. Unless nikkas are proposing then they shouldn't feel butthurt. The question should be "are you into me?".

 

[Action Jackson]

Yea you don't have to be an a$$hole about it.. Matter of fact it's probably best you don't. From my experiences that ish just breeds craziness anyway.