Dating as a 30+ yr old man

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It ain't got nothing to with biology. Men find younger women attractive because they can easily control a young woman.But keep telling yourself that.
How you as a women gonna speak on what men find attractive. That's not how the game works
 

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As a 30+ man you have no excuse to not have game, at that age you in the easier position to get early 20s and the fact that they are dumb to life should help you

Remember when all the girls ran with older brehs and had zero time for dudes their own age..well, he's now that older breh he saw getting all the ladies. Make the most of it, I certainly am :wow:
 

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Ur right but ur friend should've had enough sense to understand that sometimes younger women are inexperienced and just young, which may equate to "dumb" to some...so he shouldn't expect those young women to be so wise and established. U gotta be reasonable with expectations.

The issue is he is tired of it; not that it isn't anticipated. I think spending time with an attractive intelligent woman is much preferred to just hanging with a woman who is just arm candy especially as you are leveling up in life. You literally surrounded yourself with intelligent people and your girl is the dumbest one in the room. That's just not the look he is going for.
 

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As a 30 year-old I try and date women from 28-32. Only issue is a lot of these women are on the clock and ready to get married and have kids asap.

My parents went through a nasty divorce and I need to be with a chick for at least 3-5 years to make sure its right.

I miss college when you could just smash without any work or taking the chicks out.
 

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The issue is he is tired of it; not that it isn't anticipated. I think spending time with an attractive intelligent woman is much preferred to just hanging with a woman who is just arm candy especially as you are leveling up in life. You literally surrounded yourself with intelligent people and your girl is the dumbest one in the room. That's just not the look he is going for.
It was a major issue with my ex. Once the sex slowed down, we had no true common interest and I couldn’t have the conversations I truly desired to have with my woman. She had zero control of her emotions and emoted about any little thing. Plus, at 22-23 she really thought she had life figured out.
 

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You think that you’re gonna be the one human being in the history of all mankind to stop aging and cease having birthdays? Or maybe you’ll start reverse aging like Benjamin Button? That wake up call/reality check is gonna be one for the ages :wow:
I said flabby old nikkas:whoa:
 

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Depends on location. Mid to large city, you're golden. Smaller suburban type areas, might be a little more challenging because those areas are more family oriented, however, you should be able to close at a higher rate with single women.

And like others have said. If you're working, stay neat and have you're finances in order, there's no reason you shouldn't be doing well out there. Idk if this was mentioned, but you do have to put yourself out there.
 

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i think you should move.

i'm sure the reason there aren't many women your age around is because the young women go back home after graduating.

This honestly depends on the college town and school. I find schools next to major metro areas will keep a decent number of their graduates in the area e.g. Howard in DC, Morehouse/Spelman in ATL, Columbia/NYU in NYC etc
 
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