Dating as a 30+ yr old man

[phcitywarrior]

This site is really the first time I've heard brehs admit themselves to hospice at 30 years old....when I was in college, all the bad jawns were getting scooped up by older dudes....This one chick, I asked out on a date, and she said, "No sorry"... Later that week, 30+ dude in the MBA program scooped her up in the BMW and it was a wrap....

Saw something similar happen at Howard a few years back. One of my boys tried hollering at this one chick. She gave him a no. I saw the chick a few weeks later getting scooped by some older dude in his Benz.

In your 30's you can tap into both the 20's, 30's and even 40's if you keep yourself together.

 

[phcitywarrior]

A good friend of mines is in late 30s and dates from 20 to mid 30s. Lately he's come to realize that he really doesn't enjoy dating the women in their 20s. He likes the way they look but his main complaint is that they are dumb. He dated one young chick for 6 months and never said one nice thing about her. I think is main issue is older women don't keep their appearance up. If older women kept their appearance up I think he would prefer them.

The bolded is very true.

 

[old pig]

Saw something similar happen at Howard a few years back. One of my boys tried hollering at this one chick. She gave him a no. I saw the chick a few weeks later getting scooped by some older dude in his Benz.

lol it be fukked up that her dad/parents are paying extra for her to live on campus but she spend most of her time @ some older nikka’s spot

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The bolded is very true.

Yup a lot of 30+ women could have very good prospects willing to lock it down if they just kept up their appearance and fixed their attitudes.

 

[Lord Bison]

I’m not sure what your angle is because this whole discussion is based on the assumption that older both men and women are in shape.

Her angle is that she's trying to twist the narrative of the biological fact that women age like milk whereas men age like wine if they live their life correctly.

A man's value goes up as he gains resources and furthers his career and wisdom. Women's primary value is in their youthfulness and fertility. Obviously she's having a hard time admitting to herself that as a woman she has a very short shelf life when it comes to the dating game.

The modern day woman has a shelf life akin to Greg Oden's basketball career. Whereas a man is more comparable to Jaromir Jagr.

 

[NinoBrown]

Saw something similar happen at Howard a few years back. One of my boys tried hollering at this one chick. She gave him a no. I saw the chick a few weeks later getting scooped by some older dude in his Benz.

In your 30's you can tap into both the 20's, 30's and even 40's if you keep yourself together.

lol it be fukked up that her dad/parents are paying extra for her to live on campus but she spend most of her time @ some older nikka’s spot

Basically that was what was happening....at that point I wasn't mad because I always had a jump off in college....

But the man with more to offer a woman will always eat....

In HS....if you had wheels, you were next level and got top jawns...same for college...

At the grown man level, it is the wheels, job, and crib you got that attracts certain type of women....

Convey a certain sense of accomplishment and you gonna eat....

Look like Al Roker/Sherman Klump....of course you can't pull any chick at all...

 

[Vandelay]

shyt got easier at 30.

I'm not super handsome or tall either.

Be in shape, have a little money, confidence, and location, location location...

I would be a beast in these streets if my personality was different.

21-45 year olds look at you like fresh meat.

 

[old pig]

Basically that was what was happening...

oh ya I was laughing from experience

 

[Balla]

Man, between 2013-2015, you wouldn’t even believe the numbers I was putting up. I was a true man whore... and I personally think I’m above average when it comes to looks. So I can only imagine the numbers better looking brehs were putting up.

Btw, these were minimum 6s I was smashing.

Where you meet most of them and how did you have the time to go out all the time on dates n shyt?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Basically that was what was happening....at that point I wasn't mad because I always had a jump off in college....

But the man with more to offer a woman will always eat....

In HS....if you had wheels, you were next level and got top jawns...same for college...

At the grown man level, it is the wheels, job, and crib you got that attracts certain type of women....

Convey a certain sense of accomplishment and you gonna eat....

Look like Al Roker/Sherman Klump....of course you can't pull any chick at all...

Man, when I was broke and in college, seeing these guys in their 30s picking up the college THOTs with ease, had me looking at them like:

Now that I’m older, I’m more like

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

nope I am at my prime. 6'1 220lbs of lean muscle. I have a receding hair line but I'm good after putting in the hair fibers. May need to go bald soon though because my shyt is thinning quickly

 

[M.O.N.E.Y.]

How has namedropping that you’re a lawyer impacted your sex life?

I’m taking the bar next year and I’m already eating but going from law student to lawyer is like reaching super saiyan lol

Definitely helped! They automatically think you're caking and want to snap you up quick!

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

4 more years till 30 for me.

 

[Software]

A 30 year old man should eat from 21-45 bracket, easy.

OP is

This.

You are at your ho getting prime at 30

By that time you should have
1. A career
2. Good amounts of expendable income and be out of debt
3. In shape
4. Not look too young but also not look too old aka you getting chose by 20 year olds and 40 year olds

You can fukk 20 year olds easily
This is why it pays to not get married early and not have kids early

OP exposing himself

 

[mastermind]

For my guys who are 30+ do you find it is easier to date women than it was in your 20s? I am 31 and it finally dawned on me that I am getting old. Most of the women I encounter on a daily basis are in their early to mid 20s ( I live in a college town) . I don't get as many smiles and flirting as I did when I was a younger man. And it makes sense. I am an old man in their eyes. Dont get me wrong I still get my fair share of play.

I dont really encounter too many woman in my age bracket. I feel like all of them have either moved out of state to ome of the major cities or are married (or single) with kids.

What has been your experience? Do you date women also in their 30s or do you date younger?

You have low confidence. Take a shower, buy some nice cologne (not Axe Body Spray), get a haircut, and buy age appropriate clothes.

You should not have issues with booking 20 year olds if you are trying.