Dating At 53

[Mike809]

Because a woman in her 50s is set in her ways
Got a bad attitude she ain’t trying to change for no one
Probably divorced/widowed, so she not really looking for a life long commitment or another marriage
She just wants a companion at this point
The age range he wants is old enough to have been through some shyt but young enough to (hopefully) have healed and still mobile in the sense of doing activities outside
Older women(men too) ain’t trying to rip and run in these streets
They are either traveling, doing home projects, hanging with friends at card nights
So 37-42 is a sweet spot before everybody becomes completely jaded with life and love

a woman in her 30s could say the same thing about a man in his 50s.

 

[Laidbackman]

Why not date a fellow 50 year old?

I don't know how old you are, but once you get 50, you'll see why.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

He was stating facts and I think either he wants kid(s) , hence his preferred dating age range, or maybe he isn't physically attracted to women his age.

Men and women dont age the same. A man can still look decent in his 60s if he is in shape. 98% of women are washed by 50. Its not fair but that's life. Nobody wants a 50+ old woman looks wise. Plus older women are stuck in their ways and less likely to get on your program. that's a big reason why successful older men date younger as well.

 

[Marks]

Kept reading this thread title as dead at 53

 

[Gloxina]

That dude is a healthy looking fit 53 year old man he could easily date a 37/38 year old woman.

I acknowledged that! And she’d also expect certain things when seriously dating/possibly marrying a 50+ YO man, as opposed to a man who is even 10YRS younger than him. A lady closer to his age ain’t tripping as hard about provision because she knows he can go younger than her and spend more $ if that’s what he really wants.


National average age gap in marriages is ~4 years

 

[maxamusa]

I don't know how old you are, but once you get 50, you'll see why.

you past 50? you in the golden years!? breh we need an "AMA" thread RN

 

[Gloxina]

If me and my man break up I’m going for a fit 52 year old

You already know!


I’ve said it before… Boris Kodjoe, Morris Chestnut type, etc… they getting whatever they want from me!

 

[Illuminatos]

What other reason would a woman have for dating a guy 15+ years older than financial reasons? What could you do for her that a guy her age can’t? Dude needs to date someone his age and quit being delusional. 53 and not a lick of wisdom.

 

[The Realist Perspective]

This is what the GMBs gonna be like but flabby n sick. Funny how the breh that coined the term GMB @MikelArteta is getting married. What a rug pulling fraud, probably caused many of men following your words to be old bald and lonely like the guy in OP while you skip down the aisle with your wife 8 years your junior.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Nkkas on here always kill me wit the absolutes. Theres literally millions and millions of women, cougars, creed, and nationality all across the US.

We're not even talking globally. As long you look decent and presentable, you always gotta shot. There's lonely, desperate women all over these dating apps 35+. I'll never concede the mind frame u can't find something. If u can't find something it's you, or you're not looking hard enough.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Dating at 53 is almost over

Just thought of it sounds depressing
Yikes

Goood luck to the brother ..he’s lucky he kept himself in shape

 

[WesCrook]

he's in Miami
Miami is a total different scene

breh would eat well in the midwest/south

dating would be SUPER EASY for him in pretty much any other city outside of maybe LA

Most relevant post in this thread. He's limiting his options in shallow azz Miami.

He would absolutely EAT in other regions. He can meet a nice humble 39 year old chick at a co-worker's birthday party in the south suburbs of Chicago.....easily.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Breh gotta be realistic lolol my husband is older and he pays for everything. We have a 30/70 split for bills but then he pays for everything else for me. If you 53 and want a 30-40 y/o you gotta be willing to support her. Not saying be a trick for any woman but if it’s your gf/wife suck it up and provide for her pop pop

 

[Red11]

Breh gotta be realistic lolol my husband is older and he pays for everything. We have a 30/70 split for bills but then he pays for everything else for me. If you 53 and want a 30-40 y/o you gotta be willing to support her. Not saying be a trick for any woman but if it’s your gf/wife suck it up and provide for her pop pop

37-45 and childless are trying to get chose

 

[jilla82]

Breh gotta be realistic lolol my husband is older and he pays for everything. We have a 30/70 split for bills but then he pays for everything else for me. If you 53 and want a 30-40 y/o you gotta be willing to support her. Not saying be a trick for any woman but if it’s your gf/wife suck it up and provide for her pop pop

this is honestly the best setup for both parties

ive gone 50/50 with a chick and ive always paid for most things...
as a man handling the finances makes for a way better relationship

of course you can only do that with a female thats really with you like that...
but that shyt unlocks something out of a woman