Dating At 53

[Gloxina]

But Cloony married his wife when she was 35
He was 52

And that’s one of most famous men on the planet

But a 53 year old coli breh wants to marry early 30 year old

I mean, if multi-millionaire global movie star George Clooney can do it, anyone can!

 

[ItzRailT]

Least he not actively going after 20 somethings but let's face most women gonna view him as a meal ticket anyways this the other side them red pill channels don't talk about hell wasn't Irv Gotti complaining about this Drink Champs last year?

He's best bet is to get a late 30 something or early 40 something year old who at least looks good and ain't got no small kids.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Nah. Church be full of reformed hoes

and?

atleast they reformed

breh in this age bracket aint no virgins....men and women all 4-6 serious relationships deep and countless situation-ships deep

 

[big bun]

Wait…Coli knee grows told me I have to wear Steve Harvey suits and fedoras once I hit my 30s…and never tennis shoes…

 

[Commish]

I saw dude's clip. No mad @ his preferences, but as someone who is a year younger than him, the only reason why a man in his 50s would limit his dating pool to women in their mid to late 30s is to procreate! That's it and if that is a goal, then said man or men should marry a child bearing woman BEFORE having children.

Otherwise, expand the dating pool a lil more and enjoy life!

BTW, I am in a relationship. No kids and @ this point is cool with not having any kids.

My lady has two grown kids through marriage. She is a widow and is less than two years my junior. So, we are close in age and can relate more than a woman a decade or more my junior.

I don't want to raise any other woman's kids nor will I do so! I told my lady should we marry, then her kids need to be self sufficient. I refuse to have grown adults not my kin & live with us rent free! Not gonna do it! Got me all the way effed up!

But, as for dude, I don't care what he does with his life. He can do as he pleases and can have whatever preferences he wants.

I just know for me, a woman who isn't gonna have my kids isn't gonna run the relationship and not contribute financially to the household.

Oh, for you adults in your 20s, 30s and early 40s who think 50 is old, well...it isn't as old as y'all make it out to be. Also, y'all aren't too far from that age and hopefully when y'all reach that age you will have a different mindset towards ppl who are on the cusp of reaching their golden years.

If the goal in life is to grow old, then put some respect on those who reached that milestone! It's a blessing to live as a senior. Many ppl including kids, teens and young adults will not get to that stage in life.

 

[the bossman]

But what scares me is being old and trying to find someone who is actually for u. I feel for him.

aint no guarantees in life but IF that is what you want (which naturally as social creatures pretty much almost everyone would want) then the chances are much higher to find that when you're younger in your 20s & 30s. That gives enough time to form that strong bond having gone thru major life experiences together

 

[Cakebatter]

Which is totally understandable!!!! But I guess what we’re saying is someone (like you) who doesn’t sound like the average guy— yes you get choosing signals from younger women because you look good and are well put together = $$.

I don't view myself as some unicorn. The guy in the video looks well put together and should be no different. Dude is just delusional and probably dating out of his league. I think if you are a well off single man in your 50s, struggling to find someone to spend your life with, it's a YOU problem. Way too many choices even when limiting it to just the 35-40 year old range. A simple visit to a Black mega church, a medical conference (PT/OT/Nursing), or large yoga class, proves it. Dudes aren't above spewing "Bird Babble".

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

He should get his passport

 

[The ADD]

He should get his passport

A good number of those women also aren’t looking for support?

 

[Sterling Archer]

When I was 18 and they was 18, they didn't want me so..........

I have never looked at it that way.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

why doesn’t he date successful, educated women?

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

This is gonna be every GMB member in 20 years ….

Today : fukk commitment, I can live my life and keep eating well into my 40s / 50s


20 years later : These women aren’t looking for substance

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I saw dude's clip. No mad @ his preferences, but as someone who is a year younger than him, the only reason why a man in his 50s would limit his dating pool to women in their mid to late 30s is to procreate! That's it and if that is a goal, then said man or men should marry a child bearing woman BEFORE having children.

Otherwise, expand the dating pool a lil more and enjoy life!

BTW, I am in a relationship. No kids and @ this point is cool with not having any kids.

My lady has two grown kids through marriage. She is a widow and is less than two years my junior. So, we are close in age and can relate more than a woman a decade or more my junior.

I don't want to raise any other woman's kids nor will I do so! I told my lady should we marry, then her kids need to be self sufficient. I refuse to have grown adults not my kin live with us rent free! Not gonna do it! Got me all the way effed up!

But, as for dude, I don't care what he does with his life. He can do as he pleases and cna have whatever preferences he wants.

I just know for me, a woman who isn't gonna have my kids isn't gonna run the relationship and not contribute financially to the household.

Oh, for you adults in your 20s, 30s and early 40s who think 50 is old, well...it isn't as old as y'all make it out to be. Also, y'all aren't too far from that age and hopefully when y'all reach that age you will have a different mindset towards ppl who are on the cusp of reaching their golden years.

If the goal in life is to grow old, then put some respect on those who reached that milestone! It's a blessing to live as a senior. Many ppl including kids, teens and young adults will not get to that stage in life.

Dap + rep

Edit: you must change the reputation of 25 members I tried breh

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

that just hasnt been my experience...

women in their 30 are choosing hard

I even saw it with my father and his friends (his long time girlfriend was an attorney that was 15 years younger than him)...
he wasnt "rich" but was a doctor.

the problem with internet convos is people take general information and apply it to specific situations.

a lot of men are just boring know nothings...
they dont interest women.


im 41 and have enough money to pretty much hold a woman down (not an extravagant lifestyle).

I pull 28+ relatively easy
(if you want younger than that just pay em...a few hundred $$$ and a 22 year old will leave her boyfriend to come "hang out" at your place for a few hours...
maybe have dinner or something (if you want that)

with that said...
im well traveled
know food
can hold a decent convo
emotionally mature
great communication skills
tattoo'd nerdy vibe

im also a 6'1 6 figures

I personally dont see how certain black men struggle with black women (the ones with sense)...
they crave a relationship in the worst way.
the problem men have is a lot of them are just dumb and broke...
and dont want to admit it

#GMB

I'm not cosigning everything (I'm certainly not 6-figure), but I whole-heartedly agree with the last part, or this entire sentiment. IDK how so many folks struggle to meet females. It's you. NA SERIOUSLY ITS YOU. Its no different than the nkkas who always gotta toxic GF, or BM. Them nkkas the problem, not the bytch. You're flawed at choosing women.

U nkkas walkin around with a "one-size fits all" mentality. OR you're attracted to the "wrong" type of women. Again...there are millions, upon millions, upon MILLIONS of women in this country. Single, lonely, cheated on, successful, modest, BORED, etc. We're not even including the women, who maybe in a relationship, but are UNHAPPY. Their man shyts on em, etc. I don't wanna hear you can't meet a good female.

Of course there are POS females. But how were you raised? Are u bad judge of character, who doesn't know how to vet MFERS? That speaks more to you, than them (if you're always with shallow, POS bytches). I've came across TOO many females who were good ppl. They may not have been FOR ME at the time, because of how I was movin, but they were definitely wifey types. Actually I wasnt for them, cuz I was on demon time. This is across multiple cities and states (including my own).

AND I still think a lot you nkkas put too much into finances (being rich). You know how many lonely women, just want a GOOD man. OFC you gotta be decent, have some type of work ethic, and come with something, but there's PLENTY of attractive older women who hold their own, and just want a companion. Someone to lay up with, have around, ETC. Again...there's millions of women in this country. Get you one.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

He should get his passport

All jokes aside dude is a prime passport bro candidate. He could go to Africa for 6 months and find the younger wife of his dreams and start a family if he wanted. Women dating older is more common overseas as well.

A good number of those women also aren’t looking for support?

Men have never a problem supporting women who are feminine and submissive and not ran through. The problem is most women in America are not worth the investment due to those missing characteristics and all the kids and baby daddys they come with.