Dating At 53

[Black Magisterialness]

But that’s kinda the point being made here.

This 53 year old man thinks women 15-20 years younger than him are looking at a 53 year old man and not expecting money

What genuine connection is she forming with a man with a 1-2 generation gap, that she can’t form with a younger man? His leverage IS the money if he’s an older man.

Yeah I agree. Don't no one like you for you till they know you. Dude talking about dating a 37 year old? Dude....a 37 year old woman with no kids is stil FINE FINE. Like she can slide down to 25 or side up to 50 with NO issues. You're fighting the tides.

But I think this all breaks down to the fact that:

1. People should date within their generation. It's too important. Cultural touchstones, morals, work ethic, ease with technology...that shyt is important to building commonality and fondness.

2. Everyone is fukking spoiled. Men and women. The internet and apps made it too easy to be too selective. Men are missing out on really great 8.5 women because she's not a submissive IG thot. And women are missing out on good men because they aint 6 figure, 6 foot, 6 certs gang.

 

[lib123]

Absolutely no man under 60 wants anything to do with an 50 woman.


Have you ever heard of menopause?

Lmao I'm still young and never been with a woman close to that age. Is the box really dry like older brehs claim?

 

[lib123]

Yeah I agree. Don't no one like you for you till they know you. Dude talking about dating a 37 year old? Dude....a 37 year old woman with no kids is stil FINE FINE. Like she can slide down to 25 or side up to 50 with NO issues. You're fighting the tides.

But I think this all breaks down to the fact that:

1. People should date within their generation. It's too important. Cultural touchstones, morals, work ethic, ease with technology...that shyt is important to building commonality and fondness.

2. Everyone is fukking spoiled. Men and women. The internet and apps made it too easy to be too selective. Men are missing out on really great 8.5 women because she's not a submissive IG thot. And women are missing out on good men because they aint 6 figure, 6 foot, 6 certs gang.

Yeah brehs from 25 to 50 will smash a 37 year old woman. But it seems 37 year old women still struggle to pull successful men around their age for serious relationships.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

But that’s kinda the point being made here.

This 53 year old man thinks women 15-20 years younger than him are looking at a 53 year old man and not expecting money

What genuine connection is she forming with a man with a 1-2 generation gap, that she can’t form with a younger man? His leverage IS the money if he’s an older man.

Right that’s my point about leverage and not complaining about it. The problem is a lot of men can’t get pass they ego. You have to be realistic with who you are and understand where you at in the pecking order.

Breh 53, I don’t give a damn how I’m shape you are how handsome you are, if you going for women in they 30’s and breh of same physical stature also in his 30’s he will lose. His leverage is he should be more established and have “benefits” due to being in the career game longer. Be okay with that leverage and use it if you are going to date 15-20yrs below your age don’t complain.

If he wants it to be more about who he is a person, then date in your age group. Not saying he won’t run into the same issues but, it lessens because Father Time would have/should have lessen a woman’s feel for her own physical value.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

All this this talk of money and needing to be a sugar daddy, you might as well count yourself as done for. You need a $200k salary to properly take care of a woman. 90% of the male population aint anywhere near that. Hell most dudes ain't even near $100k


Better take what you can get at 53.

“Take care of a woman”