Dating in 2025: Coli Brehs Spending Money on the Same Chic

TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?

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Black Women waiting until they are in their mid 30s to late 40s to get serious about a relationship and marriage, doesn't get talked about enough
She's not serious though
She is just having fun and the guys are cool with it
The problem arises,when one party wants a relationship despite agreeing to a casual arrangement
 

TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?

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And that is the problem.. You're making my point
She's in her 40s and It's her life
A lot of women do it
What if she's a single mother? she's supposed to look for a step dad?
Doesn't the Coli look down on single mothers?
As long as she's upfront about her intentions..fukk it
I do the same shyt with women
It's not always about sex
Only dry dikk nikkas stress about sex

Different women are into different shyt,and sometimes it's hard to find one you mesh with 100%

Some enjoy outdoor activities
Some enjoy theatre
Some enjoy travel
Some just want to link up and get dug out

:manny:
 

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The problem with this is chicks like this is mixed in with women who actually WANT a relationship. She’s a time waster. She looks at men as just entertainment. That’s why she’s “having fun” and her “life is full”. Full time entrepreneur whatever the fukk that mean. I GUARANTEE she’s not being honest about what she’s looking for with these dudes.

And I’m willing to bet that the guys that are doing these things for her aren’t “just having fun”. They doing those things because they want to lock her down so they’re trying to throw money at her in hopes that she chooses them (which is evident by the one dude that took her to a first date concert and then immediately scheduled a date for the next day at a restaurant of her choosing).

I don’t have a problem with what she’s doing. I have a problem with hoes like her mixed in polluting the dating environment masquerading like they want a relationship but in reality they “having fun”. It’s narcissistic and user type behavior
 

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Go on a good enough date with a woman to organize a second one, while she already has two different potential dikks penciled in her schedule right after you brehs.

People like to talk about how the dating scene is trash but see nothing wrong with constantly hopping between multiple people at the same time.
Uh it’s called dating unless you tell a woman I want you to be the only one your dating she’s not obligated to you and you aren’t obligated to them.
 

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The problem with this is chicks like this is mixed in with women who actually WANT a relationship. She’s a time waster. She looks at men as just entertainment. That’s why she’s “having fun” and her “life is full”. Full time entrepreneur whatever the fukk that mean. I GUARANTEE she’s not being honest about what she’s looking for with these dudes.

And I’m willing to bet that the guys that are doing these things for her aren’t “just having fun”. They doing those things because they want to lock her down so they’re trying to throw money at her in hopes that she chooses them (which is evident by the one dude that took her to a first date concert and then immediately scheduled a date for the next day at a restaurant of her choosing).

I don’t have a problem with what she’s doing. I have a problem with hoes like her mixed in polluting the dating environment masquerading like they want a relationship but in reality they “having fun”. It’s narcissistic and user type behavior
That is the biggest problem, people portraying that they are looking for relationships when they are just looking for sex or free food/drinks. If that is all you want then just say that, because there are people that will be with that but they know most will not.
 

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Uh it’s called dating unless you tell a woman I want you to be the only one your dating she’s not obligated to you and you aren’t obligated to them.
Generally when you go on dates that is the point. Unless you are just telling women to come over to fukk, dating is the process to find a significant other. You do not have to date if the only thing you are trying to do is have sex and it does not take 10 dates to know you are interested in someone.
 

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What is with y’all thinking women owe you exclusivity without commitment? Until something is official with one person, you keep dating other people. It’s a numbers game. You should be dating multiple women as well. Every connection isn’t serious.
You should know from 3-4 dates if you like someone, to take it serious. You definitely know after the first date if you do not like someone. It should not take more than 2 weeks to know you want to continue with this person with are dating. If they want to progress the relationship then great and if they do not, on to the next one.

Who the fukk is "dating" people for months on end or long enough to the point you would have to even bring up "exclusivity"? This shyt should not drag out that long where you are "dating" the same person for a long ass time without some type of ultimatum being given by either party.
 
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