Dating in 2025: Coli Brehs Spending Money on the Same Chic

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I'm not following. Isn't this just dating?
Go on a good enough date with a woman to organize a second one, while she already has two different potential dikks penciled in her schedule right after you brehs.

People like to talk about how the dating scene is trash but see nothing wrong with constantly hopping between multiple people at the same time.
 

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Go on a good enough date with a woman to organize a second one, while she already has two different potential dikks penciled in her schedule right after you brehs.

People like to talk about how the dating scene is trash but see nothing wrong with constantly hopping between multiple people at the same time.
That's the game. Not condoning it. Dudes who have means do the same shyt, and I take full advantage. This more or less been the culture since the 70s. She'll crap out eventually. I've even had to alter my behavior because you inevitably will lose a real one. That's life; relationship lessons. As long as she ain't cheating, burning or gold digging, let her be a thot.
 

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That's the game. Not condoning it. Dudes who have means do the same shyt, and I take full advantage. This more or less been the culture since the 70s. She'll crap out eventually. I've even had to alter my behavior because you inevitably will lose a real one. That's life; relationship lessons. As long as she ain't cheating, burning or gold digging, let her be a thot.

Nah shyt doesn't sit right with me, just moving around sloppy. Talk to one person for a few weeks, see where it goes. If nothing comes, then move on. Broads going on dates with 4 and 5 different dudes a month.

You can't compare this to men since men have to put in actual effort of approaching 100 women and spending money. And that's just average dudes, not the below average or ugly ones.
 

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That's the game. Not condoning it. Dudes who have means do the same shyt, and I take full advantage. This more or less been the culture since the 70s. She'll crap out eventually. I've even had to alter my behavior because you inevitably will lose a real one. That's life; relationship lessons. As long as she ain't cheating, burning or gold digging, let her be a thot.

Can you elaborate? How do you think she will crap out? Specifically, when do you think that will happen?

Can you explain why you altered your behavior and how? What do you mean by you will lose a real one?
 

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Nah shyt doesn't sit right with me, just moving around sloppy. Talk to one person for a few weeks, see where it goes. If nothing comes, then move on. Broads going on dates with 4 and 5 different dudes a month.

And you can't compare this to men since men have to put in actual effort of approaching and spending money.

Had a friend from Toronto call me complaining he made an arrangement 2 months in advance and invited a chic to an event he got passes for. He said he asked her 1 month before the event to see if she was still interested and to confirm. He said she told him she was looking forward to it.

Breh called her again 1 week ahead to confirm if she was good, she said "looking forward to it"

He said she called him 2.5 hours before the event and said she was sick and couldn't make it. I dont know if she knew she was sick the day before or 2 days before, but 2 hours is pretty close.
 

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That's the game. Not condoning it. Dudes who have means do the same shyt, and I take full advantage. This more or less been the culture since the 70s. She'll crap out eventually. I've even had to alter my behavior because you inevitably will lose a real one. That's life; relationship lessons. As long as she ain't cheating, burning or gold digging, let her be a thot.
The problem is we then have a bunch of people in their 30's, 40's and higher crying about there are no good people out here when they most likely passed them up. Same for men and women, juggling a bunch of people at the same time is a recipe for disaster if your long term goal is a committed relationship.
 
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