Dating is such a waste of time. I think I'm done with it

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  1. The Realist Perspective

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    Not on some incel shyt. But, at this point in my life taking a girl out on a date is so unfulfilling. I'd much rather just meet up my place or her place. The whole going to get something to eat shyt, movie shyt, it's played, and it doesn't really make sense to do it from the guys perspective.

    Like, you (the woman) need / want for us to go out somewhere to get to know us and even though you (the woman) having that necessity or desire it's expected the man pays. It makes zero sense.

    If it comes down to a comfortability thing then you shouldn't even be down to dating the guy in the first place if you're just that scared of a random man. You should be dating men that you would like to be fukked by anyways.

    I say I'm done with it cuz it's just such a needless thing, a drain on money and time. Carrying the conversation. Making the decisions where to go etc. It's a heavy ass lift and I just see no fukking benefit to the shyt anymore.

    I see why a lot of men aren't on that date shyt anymore. It's practically something only enjoyed by the woman. Because I could sure as shyt get to know you at my house.

    Let's speak on it.

    Men, do you actually enjoy taking a woman out on a date? If so please explain why.

    Women, why are you into dates? Is there appeal to it outside of being treated to an outing? I am genuinely trying to understand.

    Thank you. Have a great start to your week brehs/brehettes.
     
  2. The Hierophant

    The Hierophant Smokestack Lightning Supporter

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    Find something you enjoy and do that till the wheels fall off. Immerse yourself in it. Believe in it and it will carry to the end.

    To answer your question it really depends on the woman. If she is interesting and we have things in common then yeah a date is great. But I'm choosing all the activities and it will consist of a lot of walking. If I find a woman doesn't have much in common with me I will end the date early, which I've done before. I don't particularly like going on dates so much as I like to learn what's in a woman's head. Sometimes dates can help uncover that sometimes they can't .
     
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  3. Ohene

    Ohene Lookin for da chewin'

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    You shouldn't be taking women out on full dates until the 3rd time you hang out.
     
  5. Ohene

    Ohene Lookin for da chewin'

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    If a girl is my actual girlfriend and she’s doing a good job to be a thoughtful, caring , supportive etc girlfriend then i will enjoy showing her appreciation with surprises, dates and kind gestures.

    but for a bytch i just met it’s annoying. One, two dates max and then we’re meeting at somebody’s place. And more often those dates is going to be something cheap like ice cream or just linking up for a walk by the lake.
     
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    Do you breh... Do you. :pachaha:


    If you guys aren't meeting women willing to take you out, then yeah, stop taking them out..
     
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    My dates usually last 1.5 hours
     
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    Take the woman somewhere YOU want to go. If she into it then you have a potential match on your hands, if not then you got to do something you wanted to do anyway.
     
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    Honestly I can’t blame a woman for not just wanting to go to a man’s house that she barely knows. There’s some crazy ass nikkas out here. So of course she would want to go out in a public setting. With that said tho first dates should always be cheap.
    Get some coffee and get to know each other. If shyt doesn’t progress past that than you only out a few dollars
     
  10. DreadBrown

    DreadBrown I’m tired of this sh*t

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    Glad Im not on the dating scene

    shyt seem so complex these days
     
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    I learned this some years ago. Always choose a location you like.

    For example. I went on date with a young lady near my old job, my friends still worked there and we went and ate. I didn't feel the vibe. I ended the date early and went to check my friends. We ended up going out for tacos and beer. It was great.
     
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    Ghost Utmost The Soul of the Internet

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    If you're broke then you get you a Netflix and chill bish

    A chick who is willing to fukc for a 40 oz and half a blunt of mid

    Right?

    Same bish was Netflix'in with a different dude last weekend. A 40 oz and half a blunt of mid is easy to come by. So she's getting a lot of action amongst the broke dudes.

    A woman with a higher price point at least will have less miles simply because its more costly and difficult to get at her.

    The ol 80/20 rule strikes again. The Netflix bish is the 20% of women who are fukcing with the 80% of guys who kind of struggle with puzzy

    The top 20% of men don't have to do any of this mess. They have a handful of women that are all totally down for him and know that they share him.

    Must be nice
     
  13. The Hierophant

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    Bro chicks don't want coffee dates no more. You ain't see the entrepreneur thread? They want to go Dorsiea.:troll:
     
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    nothing to do with this thread.but you helped me just reading this :leon:

    thank u for spreading wisdom

    repped
     
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    Also Picnics are a pretty safe bet in summer and when it's not rainy. Just tell her to bring water or a big bag of chips.

    I wouldn't want a woman idk at my house. Could set me up.
     
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