Dating red flags/tips you learned over the years

[MikelArteta]

@Sharp
@kevm3

 

[Morose Polymath]

-Likes going to places to meet new people without it being business related

-Can't be home alone for long periods of time

Elaborate on these for me pimpin' :rocmarcy:

 

[supertrekker]

If she suggest going for coffee as a date "FRIEND ZONE"

Constantly talks about her exes

 

[FlimFlam]

Unnecessary / intrusive questions

Have a broad ask me "what were you two talking about" in reference to another lady.. i had JUST gotten her number n spoke with her a cpl times n u on it like that? Lol ok not for me

 

[CookisaCac]

If she only has or associates with dudes only, just run unless you are just trying to smash

I typically agree with this but I just hooked up with a chick that fits this kinda. I say kinda because she has female friends, but not many and she really does come across as just a homey. Funny thing is that i've told her this and she understood but she still wanted to fukk with me on the real. Whatever, see where it goes, I aint in love or nothing and this is fresh so

got damn pawgs

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Elaborate on these for me pimpin' :rocmarcy:

No problem sir.

-If she likes going to places for the sole purpose of meeting new people that means she's not fulfilled emotionally and needs the company of others for validation...it usually means she's going out to meet new men because most women don't go to places to meet other women, at least black women don't


-If you're dating a woman and she can't be at home alone for long periods of time that means she's going to have someone slide through when you're not around or she's going to go be with someone when you're not around.

Wifey material has no problem spending a weekend at home alone if you can't be there...thots feel like they gotta be around someone or be on the scene because they're missing something.

 

[intruder]

- he doesn't have any unsecured credit cards

- he has yellow teeth or bad teeth

- he doesn't care about his wardrobe or hygiene

- his bedsheets smell or his house smells

- he has yellow/brown stains in his white tees

- he has a roommate or lives with his family member

- has a baby mother -- and he "hates" her

- he wants to pick out my clothes and tells me how to wear my hair

- he doesn't take the trash out if he sees my trash is full or by the door.

- he always brings up feminist or feminism

- he calls or I over hear him call women broads, bedwenches, clucks, bytches, hoes

- he always asking or making suggestion someone is paying my mortgage for me -- or trying to figure out my pockets

- he uses "baddie" or "bad" when referring to me or any woman.

- he's from California or Vegas

- he's dated IR or is bi-racial

- he talks bad about his momma

- he doesn't work out

- he talks about business, entrepreneurship, and tries to tell me or anymore else how to get money from doing so -- but is employed and works a 9-5.

@ this laundry list
I'm only guilty of the bolded
I dated a couple of latinas when i lived in Miami and Costa-Rica and i dont workout these days

 

[CookisaCac]

Girls with blue hair

Girls that drive Altimas

Jessicas

Non-black girls that ONLY date black guys

 

[WesCrook]

You from chi come on now you know these hoes driving around in Cavaliers, Versa, Sentra and Malibus with temp plates and they check engine light on

And you catch them at the gas station with $10

$9 goes in the tank....$1 for...

 

[Nuke Dukem]

If a woman ever tells you she was sexually abused as a kid.... you’re going to have a bad time with this bytch

 

[semicko82]

If she suggest going for coffee as a date "FRIEND ZONE"

Constantly talks about her exes

What dates would she want to go on if she was in to you?

 

[FS4LFE]

If she don’t like her ass getting ate.

No but seriously.
- she seems to dependent on a mans pockets(always posting her cash app,only fans etc)
- places her value in men over dumb shyt like social media following, height, clout etc.
-has this mentality that “nikkas ain’t shyt”

These are the three biggest red flags for me personally.

 

[King Poetic]

1. Single moms with more than 1 kid and never been married...

2. Don’t like to date anywhere around her neighborhood

3. Chick start using your last name after 2 dates , hinting that she’s your wife

4. Bad ass kid... it tells you she’s not in control of shyt

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Smart mouth - negative, unsupportive, hater

Tells you how great you are w/o knowing you - liar, full of game

Wants you to be his g/f shortly after meeting you

If he is

-bitter
-no career
-plays video games excessively
-got kids and uninterested in being in their lives
-blames women for everything
-abuses drugs
-has insecurities about your career
-is a Hotep
-doesn't have a good relationship with his parents
-is a hoe
-incel
-can spend days in a dark room doing nothing
-lives in a filthy crib
-can't cook or clean
-seems irritated by u being positive
-always tries to bring everything back to sex
-is never genuine but always talking corny game
-can't be himself
-Hates on his own friends to make himself look good
-has encouraged a chick to get an abortion in the past
-lacks passion
-is willing to fukk u raw
-never accountable for anything
-doesn't have REAL hobbies outside of PSN
-seems controlling
-can't have an enjoyable conversation with u
-resents u for having any expectations of him but wants to fukk u
-is a single sperm donor
-gets triggered by this list


There are others...

:funny:

 

[FocusedDaily]

Haven't read the thread but here goes:

No female friends that aren't relatives (it's tricky tho, either she avoids drama, she's the one that causes drama, or she's mean.)
Is "Best friends" with her mother (see above)
Social media obsession ( if she has to post everything she does, or go live to fake turn up for 10 seconds every other day, run)