Daycare costs alone discourage me from having children

[aqualung]

200 a day? Its from 200 per week.

This shyt is about to kill me and my wife. The day care we picked out is 250 a week and its not even the nicer one around here, that one is 325 a week. What pisses me off is that some people get government assistance and vouchers for this shyt and we get nothing. So im looking at 13 grand a year out my pocket and thats just for one child.

Same as you will pay when the kid is enrolled in private school?

 

[Maddmike]

The problem is the U.S. government promotes this fantasy that this is the land of opportunity for all and worst comes to worse welfare is there

And there you have these criminals on one hand and baby mommas with their hands out on the other hand

I'm not saying any government worldwide is better. But it's up to the PEOPLE and their own CULTURE to self-govern and we haven't done ANY of that

So what is needed is DISCOURAGING reckless procreation to offset the situation we're currently in. There are TOO MANY poor people simply due to a lack of reproductive responsibility plain and simple

And it's killing the global economy, America in particular and especially Black America

Honestly, I don't think it can be stopped...rates might go up and down but in the end, but it will always be there. This problem did not start in the last 50 years. It was a problem 100 years ago, the difference is they used to hide the pregnancy and give it away. And you are right about the government. When they turned babies into a pay check, that really was a blow to the community.


Kids having kids....a lil boy can't teach a little boy how to be a man...

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Not only are kids expensive...they're fukking annoying too. Other people's kids make me uncomfortable. I tell dumbass parents to control their damn children around me all the time.

the fukk i look like with kids?

Thanks for sharing

 

[Maddmike]

Thanks for sharing

wouldn't say shyt to me

 

[Wild self]

This is complete bullshyt

Just take a look at all the people on this site 18 and older who still live at home

Wealth ain't created from getting a job. What will you do to make your kids lives easier?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Wealth ain't created from getting a job. What will you do to make your kids lives easier?

What does any of that have to do with what I said


What the hell are you talkin about

 

[Wild self]

What does any of that have to do with what I said


What the hell are you talkin about

Going out on your own at 18 years of age in the 21st century isn't possible unless it's the military. Plus, having kids before you gain actual wealth is suicide for any kind of social mobility.

 

[desjardins]

Had my kid while I was in college , so taxpayers funded that and I probably got more grant money since I had dependents.
Bush had me eating good off them $4k a year income tax refunds for students.
BM was eating off claiming the son.

Having kids only make sense for poor people and rich people.
Knew a dude paying $1800 a month for one those Goddard school type day cares. You gots to be a dikkhead to have young kids as a middle class family. Best approach is to do what I did and have your kids when you young and broke as shyt. The 4/5 yrs in college will coincide with the 4 yrs they ass need to be in daycare and you can ride that subsidy wave

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Had my kid while I was in college , so taxpayers funded that and I probably got more grant money since I had dependents.
Bush had me eating good off them $4k a year income tax refunds for students.
BM was eating off claiming the son.

Having kids only make sense for poor people and rich people.
Knew a dude paying $1800 a month for one those Goddard school type day cares. You gots to be a dikkhead to have young kids as a middle class family. Best approach is to do what I did and have your kids when you young and broke as shyt. The 4/5 yrs in college will coincide with the 4 yrs they ass need to be in daycare and you can ride that subsidy wave

Automatically independent so no parents info needed. Be broke and have your education practically funded. Grad school fukked me up, though.

 

[newworldafro]

Cotdamn at these costs......... ....I mean that's your precious, so you do want to make sure it's a good place. I know when I was in Maryland the black woman in my cubicle had her daughter in daycare, and had the CCTV feed of the daycare center, so she could do her work and watch her baby at the same time. This was like 2008, so I'm sure you can do it on phones and stuff now.

When you nut raw in a woman, it is not just a biological act and spiritual experience, it is a potential financial investment. Raising a kid(s) between two thorough adults is the wave.....where did AAs go wrong?...