call it what it is breh. like i said earlier its really only black women who say that dumb shyt in bold lettersNobody wanna have the convo lol these women know exactly what the fukk they be doing. Abortion laws were liberal as fukk for most of our lives, over 20 types of birth control. SINGLE MOTHERHOOD IS A CHOICE. If all these things were cases of women being graped and forced to have the kid it would be one thing.
Lotta folks don't want to have this convo because quite frankly it would make them look at their own mother's side ways.
Men are not leaving their family like that so women tend to target a minority number of reckless men (hence the cases of many single moms its one nikka with a bunch kids everywhere) OR the mom was dealing with a cheating ass nikka who she was a side chick for and the Man takes care of his real family (hence the common cases of people with half siblings and the half siblings lived normal lives with both parents while your ass was struggling lol).
These chicks tell nikkas every day for decades they don't want to be wives, and folks still don't get it.
Like I said earlier THERE IS NO PRODUCTIVE GROUP ON EARTH WHO IS WINNING THAT WILL UTTER THE WORDS THEY DONT NEED A MAN AND HAVING FATHERS ISNT A BIG DEAL. ONLY THE BIGGEST fukkING LOSERS ON EARTH SAY THIS STUPID shyt.
You would think at this rate these Single Mother homes would be raising the perfect humans since the influence of Toxic men is gone but no nikkas are the most uncompetitive people on earth.
I'm happy you highlighted the availability of birth control and all that too. These women know what theyre doing; they simply want a child more than they want a man/relationship. It's really that simple. The system, call it the media, government etc has warped the brain of black women to think that they dont need a man, that black men arent on their level and that they can afford to have children out of wedlock and it has destroyed black families at large. You see it everywhere from the music (dating all the way back to destiny's child/tlc), our television, education, gov't policy, banking etc. Everything is being done to promote this mindset; black women are a tool to promote white supremacy and they dont even realize it.