Deadbeat fathers helped destroy the black community.

BrandonBanks

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Abandoning their kids, not starting businesses, not practicing group economics etc. These are things that caused further detriment.

1- Not marrying
2- Not starting businesses
3- Not practicing group economics
4- Not passing anything tangible down to offspring (telling your kid to "go get a job" isn't tangible, other races are passing down money, homes or keys to businesses. Even if they don't have a business to pass down they still try to hook their kids up with a good position somewhere, meanwhile the black people are under non-black upper management
 

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I blame the men before i blame the women.
If a community is messed up you look at the leaders.
Black men have done a poor job "leading".

Yeah i'm not saying black women are perfect, but black men who date out do the same thing to white/non black women, i.e. not marrying, won't start a business or something tangible to pass down to his kids etc. The overall problem is black men are too focused on chasing p*ssy than ownership. nikkas buy a Benz (to get p*ssy) and other trinkets instead of starting a business or copping real estate
 

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If you were to mistreat a white person, no matter how low in social status, the weight of this country's white power structure would come down against you.

Okay. What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?
 

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How many black men have OOW children?:comeon:

Ya'll see me in these single mom and single dad threads b/c we have been bamboozled into thinking every fertile blk male and female in our race is just running around sucking and fukkin everybody.

People never believe me when I tell them there is only 3 million blk single mothers in America. I think last time I checked it's only like 2 million blk dudes who have OOW kids.

Out of 40 million blk men and women only 5 million are bust it babies in our race and what's more is that roughly only half of those 5 million initially had those kids under rachet circumstances. Like half of those single parents are actually divorced.
So the stereotypes of the deadbeat dad and the weave-hitting thug living single mom needs to DIE!

There's a LOT of blk men and women who are single and childless.

I'm tired of people using this as a way to tear down blk motherhood AND blk fatherhood.

There aren't a lot of deadbeat dads or trash ass single moms. But media, confirmation bias and internalization of stereotypes makes it seem like it's blks bussin out babies everywhere.

And it's really not. Guess what? Out of the 40 million blk Americans we only have 10 million blk children in America. Our culture makes it seem like it's more of us but it's REALLY not.

So tearing down blk women and blk men over this is ridiculous. Our birth rates are stagnant.
You make good points but our own people praise the ratchet and the thug. Look at the reality tv show or gangster rap during 90s. People have a fascination with low of our race.
 

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I blame all the drugs they pumped into our communities first and foremost and then I blame black men for allowing themselves to succumb to their addiction. Black family dynamics were trending upwards thru the roof during the 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s. Then the Regans absolutely killed off the black family in the 80’s :francis:
It’s fukkin 2018 and you talking bout the 80s
 

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Okay. What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?
It means stop the c00n talk cuz c00ning won't better your position in this white world. The racial capitalist hegemony is the cause of all black people's problems.
 

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Do you know any single moms or fatherless kids? :yeshrug:

I think the whole point of a "deadbeat dad" is probably not being known

How many Black people do you actually know that don't know their fathers? I am not talking about people that didn't grow up with their father or who don't hang out with their fathers. I am talking about how many people do you actually know that don't know who their fathers are?

I ask you that, because the only people that I have ever met that didn't actually know their fathers were the ones whose mothers were raped or the ones whose fathers are actually dead. Even then the family members of deceased parents usually kept up with the kids.

So I keep seeing this stupid word "fatherless" being thrown around and all I can think of is that if someone's mother was raped or if their father is actually deceased then you have to be a real fukking a$$hole to throw that in their faces.

Fwiw, if your parents are alive then you are not motherless or fatherless. A father may not want anything to do with raising kids or providing financial support for his kids, but that doesn't make the kids fatherless. That just makes the father an a$$hole.

Btw, maybe you have not lived long enough to know this but their are a lot of White men; Asian men; Hispanic men and Africans right on the continent that also don't take care of their kids.
 
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It’s fukkin 2018 and you talking bout the 80s
Ok and? Last time I checked, the problems we face almost 40 years ago didn’t just disappear outta thin air. They’re still prevalent today, or transformed into something else. Can’t be sweeping shyt under the rug all the time.
 

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how many deadbeat fathers do you know?

i know they exist, but i've honestly never met one:lupe:
Word ice definitely seen like less than 5. But I know a ton who are divorced/seperated and father barely visits
 
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