dealing with modern women is unbearable

[Vodun]

if you got game you don't have these problems with women

 

[↓R↑LYB]

THIS is what they don't understand!

To men, equality means them doing less while the woman does more.

This ain't it! If your woman works a 9-5, splits the rent, and cares for the kids...


WHY is she expected to do all the cooking and cleaning too?




Black men and their entitlement is out of control.

Black men weren't the ones who forbid their women from working, voting, or owning property.....but yeah that entitlement

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Get a foreign woman

 

[The Maverick]

Most men and women of this generation ain't in it to build something long lasting. Everybody is so selfish these days, barely anyone has the selflessness and caring that it would take to nurture a family and marriage. Everyone is so distrustful and unwilling to believe in marriage. Or even togetherness.

I just want to find someone that's looking to have children, grow old together, hit milestones together. Until then, I'm chilling.

 

[Captain]

Blame everything except the one & only thing you have control over

 

[African Peasant]

Traditional women >>>>

 

[PeridotPuss]

@PeridotPuss

Address me please

See below

Im laughing at this post because im thinking about the huge gap in what women look for in a man and vice versa

She said
Emotional
Spiritual
Leadership
Partnership
Support
Protection
No debt
Advanced career

Its almost like she is describing a god in fact the bible says the wife should respect her husband as unto the lord

I'm describing character traits and aspects of the relationship that are beneficial to the relationship and hopefully the partners involved. The Word absolutely states wome are to submit to their husbands and men are to lay down their lives for their wives. Men are to love their wives as Christ loves the Church. If you want to view marriage or the male/female dynamic from a Biblical perspective - the traits I listed are in alignment with what is in the Word.

Futhermore - I don't think women SHOULD look for those traits in men...simply stating that many do and there is nothing wrong with that - though it is not what I would trust a man to provide personally....

But men seem to be very simple in their wants

Stay fit
Look good
Cook (you eat everyday so go cook
Clean(you dont like a dirty house so go clean

Sex whenever
Be quiet

Most women are born with the ability to perform these wishes. In fact she also benefits from doing these tasks

I'm going to write this very simply and I apologize to sound like arrogant about this but this whole section is like so 1. what you listed isn't even anything close to the full spectrum of male wants because....what about the side pieces strange ass and etc. but regardless both partners have to take care of their appearance, meals and hygiene while single, I don't know why either would suddenly stop once married, so both adults should be able to manage those tasks and the relationship as a whole benfits most by both parties remaining engaged in those activities. Moving on...

On the other hand all the things she wants from a man are not things we are born with we have to acquire these gifts through discipline and steadfastness on the path to manhood,fatherhood and godhood

All this shows your lack of understanding of women or the female experience (and perhaps your interactions with them - no shade - but shade). I hate to inform you but it isn't easy for anyone MALE or FEMALE on the path to adulthood, spiritual maturity and how to manage this day to day grind successfully. Everyone has short comings. If you are going to put yourself in a position of Biblical responsibility (to use your lens here) to lead a family and household and should be given the responsibilty of others lives should you not be cultivating the very best habits and character traits within yourself? or you too busy making sure the girl you try to lock down got a flat tummy and knows how to fry chicken? and let's say she do? then what? where are ya'll headed and where the fukk you leading this new family of yours to with your 75k of student loan debt and lack of money management skills except a divorce 5 years later and her future life as a divorced single mom in her 30s ....and you moved out of state and found a spanish broad who already had kids of her own because some guy found himself in the same dumbass situation you weren't built for and left lil Jose for you to teach him about the NFL and Jerry Rice and hook routes and whatnot...but that's just....some folks story.....

It seems to me i am a very valuable asset that should be highly respected

What do the wonen think of most the things men want from you are given to you innately?

It seems like it makes it much easier to perform right?

This sounds delusional - so know, I posted the above responses for lurkers and other users who are enjoying this discussion, like myself

 

[Raava]

I told @Geoffrey_Chaucer the same damn thing.

I think we should go to the wedding

 

[JackM]

Nikkaz get curved by 1 or 2 gals

and get depressed.

 

[MikelArteta]

even "good women" got 15 dudes they chatting with on whats app when they in a relationship

 

[DrX]

Blame everything except the one & only thing you have control over

wheres my other son @HankHill at?

 

[the bossman]

Hmmm no one has mentioned the white supremacist society we live in has set us up to fail as a family unit IN GENERAL. Round up all the alpha males and kill them or put them in caged boxes like animals while we GIVE the rest slave labor jobs and a handful of negroes arre allowed to have decent livings just so we don't look bad as a country...token nikka....

For the woman, we GIVE them high paying jobs with the understanding that innately they only breed with men on their level and up and in most cases never down .

.we will fill their heads/gas them up with the propaganda that they are better than their counterparts because of what we GAVE them, we will emasculate their men by locking them up or limiting their positions in the work force and killing their sons and husbands in front of their faces so that they fall in line and not buck our system. If they dare fight against our plan/ become true black nationalist, we will then demote them and take all the good jobs we Have GAVE them away and put them back on welfare where we kept them before..

Remember black wall street in Oklahoma......no one is talking about the real roots of our issues.

bruh at what point does a nikka stop blaming white supremacy for everything and accept personal responsibility when it comes to his lack of success with women?

I do all of this. Probably more that might sicken some of yall.
But my husband also does every single traditional husband function in the house.

In a traditional marriage each party may feel as though they are giving something up or
at the risk of being taken advantage of. The man may feel "why do I have all of this or the lions share
of the financial responsibility? This doesn't seem fair
the woman may feel "wwhy do I have all of the responsibility for the house and kids?" This doesn't seem fair

to submit yourself to your partner in this way requires not only love but TRUST
if you don't truly trust your partner to have your best and your family's best interest at heart
then you will never be able to put your all in.

These threads worry me because it seems like each sex is so un trusting and suspicious of the other sex
that ofcourse you can't find happiness.

just beautiful

. made so much sense

where are these great women at ? where do i look?

be honest breh. Between yesterday and today what did you do after you came home from work?

 

[Strawberry]

exactly, u cant even answer the question
'

maybe im right?

i know good women exist....its just a small %

I hang out in random places, so I'm not the best example.

Try being open to girls wherever you are.

This guy randomly approached me in passing at the liquor store one night (I was leaving as he was entering).

I've been approached enough times while out & about in the city, running errands, etc.

Been approached while chillin in parks.

Was even approached in a library once or twice.

Just get out there. Go on a rampage until you kind some quality chick you wanna keep around.

amend that to modern humanoids period and i'd co-sign..

but to be honest i've pretty much given up on ever thinking i'll find a soul mate/twin flame,i've found a few and fukked it up,and now thy life cycle is so behind the 8-Ball i'm getting pushed off the table,Babel-On blackballed&ruined thee..and no one cares,much less me anymore

This post makes me want to get drunk. I feel sad for you.

You hoe ass nikkas stay crying over some p*ssy

Waaaahhh waaaaaaaaaaaaaah

Good for you for learning not to let your severe lack of p*ssy bother you. You're probably gay anyways

 

[Yup]

Most men and women of this generation ain't in it to build something long lasting. Everybody is so selfish these days, barely anyone has the selflessness and caring that it would take to nurture a family and marriage. Everyone is so distrustful and unwilling to believe in marriage. Or even togetherness.

I just want to find someone that's looking to have children, grow old together, hit milestones together. Until then, I'm chilling.

This...its mindboggling how selfish people are but want their partners to be all About them.

You have to give as much as you take.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

if you got certs you don't have these problems with women

Fixed